It doesn't matter how much a woman is into me initially. I have the same problem with women who approach me to tell me i'm good looking, ask me out, simp for me initially. They ALL lose interest in me anywhere from 5 mins - a few weeks after they get to know me.


Just a few months ago a girl started showing interest in me again, she'd grab my hand, compliment me, for the first time in my life I actually managed to take her to bed. Afterwards things were good and we still made flirty comments at each other and said we should do it again but this too died down and now we're just awkward acquaintances and I can tell she wishes she could tell me to fuck off.

I don't understand how ALL women have the same programming. A woman can be head over heels for you and then she'll see you cross your legs the wrong way, get the ick and be disgusted at your mere presence from that point forward.
Why are they ALL like this? There is so little fucking variation in women. An alt goth girl and a blonde starbucks hoe have more in common with each other than 2 autist incels playing COD together.

This shit will be the reason why I jump in front of a train someday. I'm fucking sick of nearing my 30s and not being able to get what every little skibidi toilet faggot 15yo gets handed to him as a byproduct of simply being alive.
It's not like i'm some kind of weirdo that REEEEEEs at women, i'm just shy and awkward.
Fuck.

>>33367183 (OP)
Maybe they realize you're broke and bail out.

>>33367183 (OP)
>i'm just shy and awkward.
Probably just your energy wearing them down and killing attraction over time. You have to work on it and be consistent.

>>33367555
>Maybe they realize you're broke and bail out.
She knew it from the start.

>>33367616
Maybe you're broken then they imagined and it gave them the ick and their vaginas became dry like a desert.
Either that or you are awful to be around. Like, extremely boring and can't hold a proper conversation.
I can't think of anything else other than those two.

>>33367576
>You have to work on it and be consistent.
But he is consistent. Consistently shit. That's why they all react the same. It's not about consistency.

>>33367667
I am shy and boring because of no experiences but I can talk a bit when I get into it. I don't immediately start spilling spaghetti. I just don't see how this can instantly turn off women who I know for a fact are physically attracted to me.

>>33367696
Not sure if that's your case, but it reminded me of this meme.

>>33367745
that's how it is

>>33367696
>>33367745
This cracks me because I'm starting to think THUGmaxxxing really has some merit to it. In my teens, I used to be a troublemaker and hung out with gangbangers and drug dealers. Had no problem talking to girls. Even a couple wanted to sleep with me because they thought I was "badass". Some of these chicks came from better backgrounds than me.

Now I work at a boring Wfh job as a techie and barely get tail now. It's joever.

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over

>>33367183 (OP)
Same
they will get the ick for some reason and just go to the next guy
with me its my complete lack of social life and lack of ambition in life, as soon as they realize i have no rl friends, only online friends, they go yikes and ignore me and when i say im happy with my mediocre job they make a certain face and change the subject
i don't know what to tell you OP, women are horrible creatures

>>33367183 (OP)
>An alt goth girl and a blonde starbucks hoe have more in common with each other than 2 autist incels playing COD together
Kek

>>33367183 (OP)
You’re not alone, it seems to be a common problem actually. I had a gf - not recently - that put all the pressure of being romantic and affectionate on me. It was very one-sided. I found myself wondering even when I was balls deep in her IF she really liked me or if she was just tolerating me for the potential to have kids as she was just turning 30 herself. It bothered me a lot during and after the relationship and honestly I spiraled into incel thought. Maybe they do just loathe a certain subset of men subconsciously regardless of efforts? Then I had this brain wave after putting the line “where are the cute women?” From that one shoe on head video together with pic rel. I had to let it marinate for a while before it dawned on me.

For some reason women think men want affectionless emotionally stunted physically distant stoic women. Ungabunga she-grug brain goes “him stoic I stoic too!” Then they proceed to wonder why no man wants to spend time with them. And it’s like you act all stoic and that gives the impression that they don’t want you touching them being romantic or affectionate or honest. This pushes the dude away, (You), and she gets all confused like “I’m doing what (((he))) wants why isn’t he affectionate and romantic?!” And these women don’t think critically so they don’t change and push you away. Keep looking and if or when it happens again be quick about cutting her loose and be up front with the problem.
>“You’re being a stoic affectionless weirdo and I don’t need that in my life dragging my mood down.”

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>>33367183 (OP)
I can't imagine this ever happening to me. Women don't give me any attention lol

You have Asperger's. Women would rather date someone who physically abuses them before dating someone with Asperger's, women especially hate men who have a high IQ.

>>33367183 (OP)
It sounds like you're getting laid, so you probably already know why you're off-putting but you're unwilling to confront that about yourself, but hey you already know how to seduce a woman you're attracted to. That's good news. You came here to vent because you wanted it to work out with someone and it didn't. That sucks man. I've been there and I feel you. Go ahead, say retarded shit like 15 year olds are getting laid. You know the 1% of 15 year olds who are getting laid aren't having passionate sex with someone they love and intend to build a future with. It's mostly weird, awkward, and embarrassing, just like your first few sexual experiences. Dudes don't get the benefit of just laying there with their legs open, they gotta take the lead, warm it up and deliver.
Idk what to tell you though man, besides you're gonna be alright and forget about this girl the second you have a shot with another. Just keep trying. That's all you can do.

>>33375775
>women especially hate men who have a high IQ.
This is a cope from blackpill forum dwellers who think they le IQmog normies xd when in reality they're the most retarded gorillaniggers ever.

>>33375832
>say retarded shit like 15 year olds are getting laid.
oh come on, stop this cope. Teens are having sex. Did you not go to school? Only the biggest losers didn't get laid before graduation.

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>>33367183 (OP)
Because you're a faggot who posts soijaks on 4channel

>>33376615
>This is a cope from blackpill forum dwellers who think they le IQmog normies xd when in reality they're the most retarded gorillaniggers ever.

normies have the most retarded conversations

Desperation is bad in every facet of life. You just have to learn to turn away from the idea that if you don't get that thing you really want today your life is ruined. And it's also unsightly, it's like begging and grovelling on the ground, anybody with dignity would hate to behave in such a way. You have to do something else to distract yourself until your desperation stops, not only for this but for anything else

>>33379659
Dude, i'm 24. I've been wanting a girlfriend since my teens, you know when ever other normal guy got a girlfriend. To want a gf/ sex at my age is completely normal. There's no "distracting" myself from it.