Thread 33367440 - /adv/ [Archived: 525 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/15/2025, 6:08:41 PM No.33367440
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>girl asks for height in first 5 mins

Am I wrong to consider this just disrespectful? I am average height, but to me, asking this is like asking for bra size or beach pics so that I can better analyze her ass.

How should I respond to this?
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 6:12:56 PM No.33367466
>>33367440 (OP)
Maybe tell her your real height and ask her for her bra size?
Anonymous
7/15/2025, 6:31:55 PM No.33367568
>>33367440 (OP)
You can interpret it as being disrespectful, yeah, or you can interpret it as just being straightforward. I would say it's generally considered rude, especially if you're out on an IRL date. Unfortunately though, on dating apps, it's very normalized. And that's simply due to the nature of the apps, where men outnumber women 3:1, so women can afford to offend you and filter you out if you don't meet her criteria, because there are always tons more guys clamoring for her attention - she can easily afford to lose you. It's like if you have way too much food, it's not a big deal if a piece falls on the floor. But if you had little to eat, you would do everything in your power to save it all.

>How should I respond to this?
Depends on what your goals are. If you want to proceed with her, tell her your height. If you don't mind losing her or starting an argument, tell her it's a little rude to just ask someone that right off the bat.

If you get few matches, it might be worth it to not cause arguments until you've met her IRL and built a rapport. Then you can retroactively and lightheartedly bring up that she was a bit rude asking for your height right off the bat. If she likes you, this will just make her laugh and reflect since she values your opinion now. But since you've only just met her and you're one faggot in an ocean of other faggots competing for her attention, there is a chance any friction will cause her to ghost you. That's just the nature of this dog shit modern dating game.
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 6:44:48 PM No.33367657
>>33367568
How does it get so screwed in women’s favor when there is still a roughly 50-50 gender ratio? If everyone were pursuing a committed relationship, there would be a limited supply on both sides. And polygamy cannot be the explanation. Very few women are “sharing” a man.
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 8:42:01 PM No.33368116
It is, but most guys tolerate it and the ones that don't are usually short, unattractive, or both. That means that the girls will keep getting away with it.
>How should I respond to this?
Stop talking to her immediately. I don't care if she still wants to fuck you and exclusively gets off on your nastiest fetish; you have a social and moral obligation to ghost this girl.
t. 6'3", pretty handsome guy who still got insulted by some hefty girl from Hinge because I had shaved my head recently when she messaged me
Anonymous
7/15/2025, 8:52:18 PM No.33368170
>>33367657
The amount of "men" willing to drag their balls through broken glass is way too high. In that specific environment there are way more male users than female users so the scale is tipped.
Anonymous
7/15/2025, 11:07:53 PM No.33368795
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>>33367440 (OP)
I'd goat her into thinking i was tall, have a looooooong conversation with her, and then dump her out of nowhere, revenge for being so shallow.
Start trolling, it's gonna be so fun!
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:00:36 AM No.33369100
>>33367440 (OP)
this is like being asked for your previous salary at a job interview. if you're skilled you can dodge it without sounding mad if you think the information potentially lowers your status.