>>33367440 (OP)You can interpret it as being disrespectful, yeah, or you can interpret it as just being straightforward. I would say it's generally considered rude, especially if you're out on an IRL date. Unfortunately though, on dating apps, it's very normalized. And that's simply due to the nature of the apps, where men outnumber women 3:1, so women can afford to offend you and filter you out if you don't meet her criteria, because there are always tons more guys clamoring for her attention - she can easily afford to lose you. It's like if you have way too much food, it's not a big deal if a piece falls on the floor. But if you had little to eat, you would do everything in your power to save it all.
>How should I respond to this?Depends on what your goals are. If you want to proceed with her, tell her your height. If you don't mind losing her or starting an argument, tell her it's a little rude to just ask someone that right off the bat.
If you get few matches, it might be worth it to not cause arguments until you've met her IRL and built a rapport. Then you can retroactively and lightheartedly bring up that she was a bit rude asking for your height right off the bat. If she likes you, this will just make her laugh and reflect since she values your opinion now. But since you've only just met her and you're one faggot in an ocean of other faggots competing for her attention, there is a chance any friction will cause her to ghost you. That's just the nature of this dog shit modern dating game.