>>33368069Sounds like you know your problem.
Living with someone you are not bonding with and just want to keep around for the pussy is obviously always going to fall flat.
Treat women like you treat your homies. Build real bonds with them, platonically. They are not all that different from us, and the more you believe that then the more you will be able to share with them.
Might not be able to give you the best advice because I'm nothing like you (not judging, just not my style, can't do one night stands and I'm a very warm person in all facets of life) but by the same token, I might have really good advice I've spent my last 10 years in two long term relationships, the second of which has been going for 7 years and includes getting married and having a child.