How do you have fun at the beach?
How do you have fun if you go alone?
What should you plan if you want to invite friends?

>>33368483 (OP)
i've never went to the beach alone. i think you probably can have fun if you go to a secluded small one where you are alone, but probably 99% of people cannot escape the feeling of looking like a loser when at a populated beach alone.

>>33368532
I ask because last time I went to the beach, I went alone, took a camera and took a few pictures, felt like a loser and went home. Then I told my mom to go with me. She sat there watching me because despite me being an adult she's still overprotective and has never been a social person, so all I did was fight the tide for 15 minutes, stare at hot women, took a couple of pictures and felt like shit from seeing everyone else have fun.

Being alone in public makes me feel like I'm the last person alive on Earth. I want to have fun with others, but I don't know what to expect, who should I trust to invite, I want to see girls in swimsuits and fool around, be fucking youthful, but this cloud of insecurity looms telling me this and that are bad ideas. I don't know what to expect so I ask what's normal to do.

I don't think doing paper sumo impressions or shooting each other with guns are usual beach activities are they?

>>33368591
>want to see girls in swimsuits
I mean that’s really the only fun thing about the beach itself to me.

>>33368483 (OP)
Personally, I feel a lot more alone being invisible in a crowd than when nobody else is around. I recommend sleeping; helps pass the time.

>>33368483 (OP)
1. Bring a shovel
2. Dig a hole
It will attract frens and then you will not be alone. :)

>>33368483 (OP)
im going to go swin straight out into the ocean, and just keep going further out until im too far, and then keep going, until i get tired and die

>>33368483 (OP)
For me, I think of going to the beach alone as more of a relaxation activity than a "fun" activity. Bring a book, chair, towel, some drinks, paddleboard (I live by lakes, not the ocean). Have a couple drinks. Read a book. Take in the atmosphere. Take a nap. Go for a swim or paddle.

Last weekend I actually went to one of those online meet-ups and it was being held at the beach. It was nice, I met some great people, someone brought a net and we played volleyball, I think around 30 people showed up.

I love going to the beach, but I usually go with atleast one other person. You can always just show up and relax - find a place with some shade, reading a book, bringing some food, meditating.

>>33368483 (OP)
Sailing.

>>33368483 (OP)
"Mother, may I go out to swim?"
"Yes, my darling daughter.
Put on your suit
And you'll look cute,
But don't go near the water."

>>33368483 (OP)
go to an animal shelter and do a "doggy day out" or something similar
basically you just get a dog for a day from the shelter so it gets socialized and out of for a bit, and take him or her to the beach
can rly b any animal, pretty much every shelter in the us does this
boom, not alone.
https://voca.ro/1lktUFLYIKpC

>>33368483 (OP)
>how do I have fun?
This fucking board is almost as depressing as /r9k/

>>33368532
>>33368591
Because you're not supposed to go alone. You're correct to feel that it's weird, because IT IS.
I always found it hilarious when retards on /adv/ tell lonely guys with anxiety to go to the beach or the club alone when everyone is there with their friends or gf/bf. It's only okay if you're a tourist in a foreign country and even then some would think it's weird you're travelling alone and would assume you're doing it for cheap pussy.

>>33368483 (OP)
Get a little drunk. Invite random people to have fun. Don't need to have anything specific in mind. It'll work out. Be careful about who you approach and be respectful.