My male best friend's gf is seething and wants him to cut contact with me just because he told her we had sex a few times over 10 years ago as teenagers.

We talk literally every day and she wants him to stop texting me over this.

Do you think this is reasonable?

>>33368646 (OP)
>Is female.
>Has a male best friend.
Is your boyfriend aware that you cuck him this hard or are you single?

>>33368878
I'm single but I have never "cucked" anyone or cheated.

>>33368646 (OP)
Yeah it's completely reasonable for her to want that but it's not reasonable for him to cut off a long term friend for a new (?) girl. This is one of the reasons they say men and women cant be friends. The solution is she breaks up with him and you two stay single forever, get together or drift apart into mere acquaintances.

>>33368646 (OP)
It means she doesn't trust her bf to not sleep with you again. Obviously, you trust him because yall are close friends, but she doesn't know him as well. However, his gf is still being unreasonable. If she don't trust him the solution is to leave, not to force him to break off a friendship

>>33368646 (OP)
>Do you think this is reasonable?
It's not reasonable, but it's understandable. She feels insecure. He seems to care about you than about her; he spends more time messaging you than he does talking to her; and now she finds out the two of you used to have sex. You can see why she'd feel threatened.

Men and women can’t be friends. Simple as. I’d fucking laugh do a 360 and moonwalk away from someone if they told me they were best friends with someone they used to have sex with. Huge red flag.

>>33370600
It's a lot more common than you might think. Nothing really wrong with it.

I used to have a very good female friend that was also friends with my girlfriend. One day my girlfriend had a woman moment and decided that she didn't like the friend. A couple months later it was a problem that I was still talking to her and hanging out with her and I was basically told to choose. I went with my gf, now wife, and stopped talking to my friend. I felt bad at the time, but im quite happy with my life overall and don't have regrets. I don't really have any advice, but this post feels similar to my situation so I wanted to share. I think if your friend values you less than his gf and push comes to shove then you're fucked.