I have a problem with my bf (23yo). We're dating since december. He said that he doesnt desire me. Im conventionally attractive, a lot off man gives me attention. I weigh 55kg and I am 5,6 ft tall. I do have bigger hips and muscles, but I dont work out regularly. He is 6ft tall. He said that he likes "smaller" girls. Now I feel great about how I look and I'm afraid I'll have complexes. At first he wanted me so badly but now we dont have a lot of sex. We both want our sex life to improve but I don't want to force him if he doesn't initiate anything himself, because I don't attract him. to In my previous relationship which lasted a couple of years we fucked all the time and this situation hurts me. I love him and I dont wanna lose him. We had a talk about it and he wants to change it by going to sexologist, cause he cares about our relationship a lot. I dont actually belive that we can "choose" who we desire. Did you have a similar problem and was it solved?

>he doesnt desire me
End it. No point in continuing this relationship. I was with a fine woman, but she got fat and I lost desire on her. The relationship became garbage and she ended it because she couldn't take it anymore after some point.
Be with someone that appreciate you and you'll be happier.

>>33369008 (OP)
If he wants the two of you to go to a sex therapist, you should definitely go. Refusing to is giving up.