Thread 33369275 - /adv/ [Archived: 520 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:37:53 AM No.33369275
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>been going out with girl for about ~2 months now
>seems to be going great, we get along well
>she mentioned that she was "left leaning" early on and that she wanted someone who shared her worldview
>told her I wasnt as left wing as her, specifically saying that Im not a socialist after she mentioned that shes thinks democratic socialism is good
>seems that it was an agree to disagree point
I started going through her social media and its a bit more than I thought. Like I thought she was just into Bernie Sanders ect. but she has all this stuff about how its racist colonialism to expect BIPOC people to come into work on time, or shes reposting pictures of morbidly obese naked people in a field and how its indigenous trans-rights to be fat and health culture is fascist, and posting stuff about how parents who wont let their 5 year old child undergo sex reassignment surgery are racist, transphobic nazis ect.

Basically, shes comes across as a far left nut case. I dont know if this is going to work out, how do I break this to her? Should I tell her I dont think our world views are going to mix or say its about something else? Im not interested in debating her/trying to make her change her mind or anything like that.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:40:58 AM No.33369288
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>political chick
I want distance.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:53:18 AM No.33369328
>>33369288
all chicks are somewhat left leaning giganormies. Best to hope for is one that is apolitical and might make a few post out of a sense of societal obligation
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 1:03:34 AM No.33369371
>>33369275 (OP)
Well you seem pretty okay with dating her but no agreeing about politics and since it hasn't come up organically it seems yall don't talk about politics, which is good. You probably should bring it up with her and ask if she is also okay dating when you disagree on this stuff
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 1:16:49 AM No.33369416
Trust me on this as I have gone through it multiple times.
>"Can we talk?"
>Get on phone
>"I don't think this is working out. It's not you, it's me. I'm not over my ex and it's starting to affect how I see you. I'm not ready for a relationship and you should move on from me so I can heal. I wish you the best."

Otherwise, she'll try to argue with you, send you all sorts of abusive text messages, and possibly even try to slander you on social media. Do not reveal anything about your political views or that you think she's retarded, otherwise she'll have a crashout.
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 1:18:21 AM No.33369421
>>33369371
Its too much for me. Like I think the "queer bipoc trans struggle against white supremacist nazi gym culture!" stuff is crazy and its whatever, but the trooning out children stuff is just over the line and I cant be with someone like that.
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 1:45:33 AM No.33369487
>>33369275 (OP)
It's alright, you'll argue about it, which they fucking love. Make it seem like you've had enough and are leaving, then she'll want you more than she's ever wanted anything. Dated a full communist bitch once. Sometimes I'd make racist jokes and she'd lose her fucking mind at me. I'd tell her that's it and I'm done, then she'd fuck my brains out. It's a massive headache and eventually proved to be too annoying for me. But was fun while it lasted.