Thread 33369279 - /adv/ [Archived: 404 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:38:52 AM No.33369279
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I get actually angry when men glance or look at me since I know there's now a possibility of being approached, and I don't want to have to reject anyone since I have abf. And in general as well stranger men simply annoy me, pretty much all stranger men and their presence annoys me to a pretty big degree.

Is this something I should share with my bf or just keep 100% to myself?
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:43:47 AM No.33369301
The problem is not the men. The problem is what you did to your mind. People shouldn't influence how you feel.
I see no problem in sharing this with your bf. Men want your body, since they don't know you. You don't even have to reject them, just ignore. Maybe you should take a look on how other chicks deal with this issue. Some may have the best solution.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:57:09 AM No.33369344
>>33369301
>People shouldn't influence how you feel.
yeah I agree, I would say I started feeling like this a few years ago but can't pinpoint what started it. It's not like I've ever been attacked or raped so that wouldn't be it. But I guess I started feeling this way when I started getting approached by men (I didn't get this behavior when I was young so I didn't get used to it back then I guess).
And yeah I do ignore them. Maybe it's the effort that's making me annoyed. I make sure not to make any eye contact with men bc I just don't like to do it, but when there's only women around I don't have to consider this and avoid it so hard. And ty for the advice.
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 7:42:21 AM No.33370884
>I have abf
then you should wear a ring on your ring finger right or left hand.
recently i was in a train and there was this girl obtruding me, i checked her out and noticed she was fidgeting her ring (she noticed me her checking out).
so i knew she was taken and did not even try to approach her.
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 10:33:32 PM No.33374173
>>33369279 (OP)
the vast, vast majority of men won't approach you unless you send them signals. Unless we are talking about total social cripples, migrants or 2000s PUA spastics, normal men can recognize a "don't talk to me face" and look for greener pastures.
Body language is mostly subconscious, if you give of fthe vibe of not wanting to be approached it will happen only very rarely to never.
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 10:35:51 PM No.33374192
>>33369279 (OP)
Stay inside if you don't want to be seen. If you walk in front of me, I'm probably going to notice you, and I'm probably going to feel like I dislike you as opposed to anything else. A look means nothing.