I have 5 dates lined up for this week and the next, and I find myself regularly ghosting/semi ghosting women while texting or taking hours since I am insecure that they will lose interest, I think im prolonging the interest or in a strange way trying to have control over the cessation of the interaction to protect myself/ego. Any tips on how to get over this ?

One of the main contributing factors is insecurity around maintaining interest, I've had dates end on a sour note more times than I wanted them to for various reasons, even if we kissed or were close to having sex. It annoys me, I also find it difficult to move from crush to bf/gf, I've never had one and im 26m, how does one act, are we now inseparable. I've found that getting these girls is easier after following some YouTube "Redpill" hence the dates. I get this is semi all over the place but adding info I think will help

Any advice appreciated

>I burn bridges
At some point you'll be out of bridges to burn.

>>33369400 (OP)
How do you manage to be this insecure and get so many dates? Seriously, where are you meeting them?

>>33369441
Apps:
Hinge, tinder, bumble etc

bump

I ghost them because it feels like a fucking chore and none are all that interesting.