I met a girl at a bar, talked for a couple minutes, got her number and then asked to take her out the next week

how much should i be texting her in between? She is definitely very receptive and attracted to me, but id rather save getting to know her for the date and dont really like texting. I dont want to completely ghost before the day of, but sending shit like "good morning" or even "how was your day" feels a little bit innapropriate. Thoughts?

>>33369546 (OP)
Bruh, if you want to talk to her, you talk to her.
Do not overthink stuff. If she wants to know you, she will be willing to talk to you.

>>33369618
i do want to talk to her- in person

i dont want to text her but it seems like bad ettiquete to not text at all for a week before a date

>>33369630
No, do what that anon said. If you want to talk to her before your date, text her that shit. Don't overthink this

Just message her, if you feel like talking. Don't force conversation, but if you wanna hear from her then talk to her. They do like attention.

>>33369546 (OP)
Are you looking for a serious connection or just a fuck buddy? If it's just for a fuck buddy play whatever mind games you think you need to until you get your dick wet. If you want a serious connection, then talk when you want to talk, act naturally to how you really are and don't put on any stupid masks. If you want to date with the intentions of marrying her and you decide to play those stupid mind games and not be honest with yourself then you will never find the opportunity to take those masks off and you will be unhappy. You should find someone who is as thrilled about being with you as you are of her. Find the girl that wants to talk a bunch before dates. It's not easy, but would you rather have a heard journey where you are happy in the end or an easy one where you aren't fulfilled. If you text her and it weirds her out then fuck her because you were putting more effort in and happier about it than her and you dodged a bullet.

op here, thanks for the advice- but i think I worded my initial message poorly.

I DONT want to text her- I would rather wait until we meet in person. I don't want to go completely cold as I feel it is bad etiquette and the plans might fall through. Im wondering how I can text her as minimally as possible, ideally.

>>33370324
so dont fucking text her then lol.
Just something when the day of the date is getting close like “yo is this still going down”

>>33369546 (OP)
At least once, to firm up the time and place. And give her some indication of what you're planning, since that will affect how she dresses.

>>33369546 (OP)
Leave texting for planning and meeting up. Leave chatting and long talks for the dates, you can talk long over text later when you know her well.

>>33369546 (OP)
>sending shit like "good morning" or even "how was your day" feels a little bit innapropriate.
yeah it fucking is. just talk to her bout some random shit like every 3 days and you'll be fine. dont be a needy retard. act as if you had 10 women

>>33370324
>I don't want to go completely cold as I feel it is bad etiquette and the plans might fall through
you are right there too
dont listen to autists. stick to once every 2-4 days

>>33369546 (OP)
"Lets meet on x date", make date soon.
Then youre fine not texting. Check in day of if yorue still on. Occasional "looking forward to x day"

And in your specific case, its acceptable, maybe even beneficial to tell her "i dont want to text too much cause I want to save getting to know you for the date". That would be a loud, clear, and very acceptable (possibly even welcomed) that you are not gonna be texty. This is all fine.
You are communicating interest and that youre not clingy. Both good thinfz.

>>33370324
No it was very clear. People just have dog shit reading comprehension.