I think I got about 2 more attempts with girls I would actually desire in me before I say fuck it, going to settle for single mom

Yes it's cucked and pathetic, but there could be upsides. I could get to be a dad...I would love to be a dad, a cool little buddy to play video games with, that could be fun. Be a woman's knight in shining armor. Her freinds calling me a hero. there is SOME benifit (doesn't outweight the negitives but its there)
And who knows, I could have my own kid with her, it's not ideal but my bloodline continues, better than nothing.

I have 2 rules if I'm going to do this
The kid must be a boy (FUCK dating a girl with a daughter, if she finds me kind of annoying one phone call and one lie can ruin my life forever)

2. No Mutts (closes the potentials, but this is a hard line)

So yeah, if I do fail my next two attempts I have lined up and say fuck it, single mom pill, is this as bad as an idea as people make it sound?

>>33369565 (OP)
If you want to be a dad so bad, single mom sounds right for you. But you do have to understand that dating single moms is still hard, most of them are single for a reason

>>33369655
I would think the best case scenario would be widow who married her high school sweetheart who died in iraq, one dick body count, but shes always going to be longing for the real man and just settling for me, fuck i'm okay being second place, I've been dead last my entire life

>>33369565 (OP)
>I could get to be a dad
Nope. Dad will always be dad, even if he's a deadbeat and absent. Especially these days where it's normalized to have baby daddies with no expectation of marriage. She will also most likely not let you be dad.
>little buddy to play video games with
That is literally all you'll get to be. If their dad is in their life at all, most likely you will find him undermining you and doing what he can to infantilize and emasculate you to the kids when you're not around, and if you retaliate he will probably use it against your girl in court.
>woman's knight in shining armor
She will not view you this way. She may still like and respect you, but you will still just be the guy who stepped up.
>freinds calling me a hero
No. If anything, they will likely look down on you.
>I could have my own kid with her
you better, or there is no valid reason to be with her.
I'm saying all of this as a guy who has been around a lot of divorce and stepdaddery. My best friend in the world is currently a stepdad, and most of what I just described is happening to him. Only difference is he's a respectable guy and his wife has no friends, so no way to gauge how they'd view him.
But the shit about bio-dads is anecdotal; the bio-dad in my buddy's life has done everything I mentioned and then some. Even if he's not mentally ill, he's gonna want to treat you like a kid because he knows your girl is always going to be thinking about him and it's his kid you're raising.

I would keep soldiering on man. Nothing good can come of single moms.

>>33369565 (OP)
>I say fuck it, going to settle for single mom
what makes you think you would even be able to "settle" for single moms?
with your ALL CAPS autism energy being pre-emptively mad at your hypothetical stepdaughter or half-korean stepson, women are gonna sense that a mile away

>>33369565 (OP)
What ever the gender of the kid can't save you from false accusations.

I do know a single Dad who married a single woman and it seems to be working out. She is not much to look at but seems to have some decent skills and values. He had one and an ex and they have made two more.