Anonymous
7/16/2025, 5:32:11 AM No.33370244
This is a repost, the advice im looking for is who do you think was the abusive one/sociopath
A year ago I met and mutually flirted with someone in a discord server that had nothing to do with 4chan. (This is relevant later)
Things were fine when he cut contact with me last year, he simply shit talked me in private and got none of my friends involved. He only demonized me to his friends and didnt recruit anyone to his side.
This year however he got deeply involved in my life and recruited MY friends to his side and it hurt me deeply and still hurts me. I told his community what he did to me and I got silenced and banned and they claimed I was the abusive person in the ban message.
Our last real conversation was him threatening to go on 4chan to ruin my life and post my nudes if I ever messaged him again. I didnt get to reply as he either unfriended me or blocked me.
Everyone says I was the abusive one because I was obsessed, but I was obsessed with someone I knew irl and he was able to cut contact with me just fine, so im thinking its cap. The dude lives in england and I live in the u.s no one near him, I couldn't fly out to him and abuse him irl even if I tried.
Tldr; flirted with a e-boy long term. Instead of blocking me, which he did a few times already, a few months ago he made a cyberbullying group chat/hate chat about me, one of his orbiters still harass me to this day.
My question is, who was in the wrong? Who was abusive?
Im late 20s and hes in his early 20s.
A year ago I met and mutually flirted with someone in a discord server that had nothing to do with 4chan. (This is relevant later)
Things were fine when he cut contact with me last year, he simply shit talked me in private and got none of my friends involved. He only demonized me to his friends and didnt recruit anyone to his side.
This year however he got deeply involved in my life and recruited MY friends to his side and it hurt me deeply and still hurts me. I told his community what he did to me and I got silenced and banned and they claimed I was the abusive person in the ban message.
Our last real conversation was him threatening to go on 4chan to ruin my life and post my nudes if I ever messaged him again. I didnt get to reply as he either unfriended me or blocked me.
Everyone says I was the abusive one because I was obsessed, but I was obsessed with someone I knew irl and he was able to cut contact with me just fine, so im thinking its cap. The dude lives in england and I live in the u.s no one near him, I couldn't fly out to him and abuse him irl even if I tried.
Tldr; flirted with a e-boy long term. Instead of blocking me, which he did a few times already, a few months ago he made a cyberbullying group chat/hate chat about me, one of his orbiters still harass me to this day.
My question is, who was in the wrong? Who was abusive?
Im late 20s and hes in his early 20s.
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