My gf is rewriting my sexuality - /adv/ (#33371912) [Archived: 456 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/16/2025, 2:29:01 PM No.33371912
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The bedroom dynamics with my new gf are unusual.

I never experienced anything like this before and from what I read it is very uncommon:

She is full on dominant and expects me to be submissive.

I didn’t like it at all initially but now it really turns me on.

I’m worried where this could lead and even more so that if she breaks up with me, I will not be able to go back.

The vast majority of women crave domination so I’ll have to revert to that if I ever want a chance with them.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 2:54:58 PM No.33371995
>>33371912 (OP)
What advice do you want?
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 2:57:28 PM No.33372001
>>33371995
Is there cause for worry?
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 2:58:09 PM No.33372003
>>33372001
Only if it's a precursor to pegging
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 3:16:01 PM No.33372073
>>33371912 (OP)
now imagine what she's done with her former partners
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 3:50:13 PM No.33372189
>>33371912 (OP)
literally just don't fuck it up
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 3:59:28 PM No.33372212
anon you gotta be that kind of man women write in their erotica
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 4:25:10 PM No.33372276
>>33371912 (OP)
Can you imagine yourself being vanilla ever again? If so you're fine. You can enjoy being sub without being limited to being sub
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 5:18:13 PM No.33372470
>>33371912 (OP)
In most relationships both people will be dominant at some point. Your sex wont always be 100% femdom or at least shouldnt be. Try taking control back one time and see what happens. I fell into the same trap as you where I liked her dominating me and she defaulted to it, but if you overpower her that will add a lot of variety and tension to future sex.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 5:41:19 PM No.33372571
>>33372003
Pegging is amazing. Best orgasms I've ever had in my life.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 6:17:30 PM No.33372740
>>33372470
> but if you overpower her that will add a lot of variety and tension to future sex

Any tips to on how to overpower her without it being too forceful?
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 11:11:31 PM No.33374336
>>33372571
Are you a dude or a girl?
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 12:53:03 AM No.33374706
>>33371912 (OP)
>I’m worried where this could lead and even more so that if she breaks up with me, I will not be able to go back.

Shes not actually "rewriting" anything, because thats not possible. If you weren't sub to some degree, you'd simply have told her to fuck off and the relationship would have never happened.
if you enjoy being dominant, its not unlikely that you are a "switch", someone who can do both. If being a sub makes you more happy, theres no point in pretending otherwise anyways. I wouldn't worry about it.