family refuses to treat me like a adult - /adv/ (#33373344) [Archived: 375 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/16/2025, 8:31:31 PM No.33373344
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>in my 20s and work in trades
>something needs fixing in my mothers or grandmothers house
> they always want someone "professional" to do the job and every time i have to convince them that i can do it and help them save money
>start the job and even if everything is going well i get interrupted every 5 mins with shit like "anon. u sure you can do this?" "anon you can back down anytime you want if this is too hard for you" "we can always call someone to do this if its too hard"

Its so fucking emasculating to get doubted constantly even though ive proved myself many times. Its like they refuse to believe im not 12 anymore
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 9:53:40 PM No.33373905
>>33373344 (OP)
Stop caring about proving yourself to them. If you really are good at what you do, the results will speak for themselves and your family will come to you.
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 9:56:12 PM No.33373927
>>33373344 (OP)
Women are stupid. They still see you as the little 5 year old kid who pissed himself, and years of wageslavery has fossilized that image in their brains.
Unhinged violent behavior and intimidation will usually set them straight.
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 4:14:59 AM No.33375390
>>33373344 (OP)
> every time i have to convince them that i can do it and help them save money

Why? Just let them handle it themselves. It sounds like you’re trying to prove something to people who don’t care.
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 4:42:11 AM No.33375452
>>33373344 (OP)
no shit you are here anon. we are all fucked up by shitty parenting
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 4:44:08 AM No.33375459
>>33375390
sadly this is the only answer. the worst is like in my case when they ask you to do shit and then act like you are doing it wrong even though it's not true

just fuck them and ignore them anon, even if they ask say you are busy
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 5:03:11 AM No.33375523
Women are just fucking retarded and love authority and "professionals". Its one of the things I hate the most about them.
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 5:04:33 AM No.33375533
>>33375390
not op but he clearly wants to save his family money and they are too retarded to accept it. Its not neccisarily motivated by ego or anything like that
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 5:08:56 AM No.33375540
>>33375523
i hate so many things about them it's insane. too bad i'm hardwired to want to simp and put babies in them
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 6:07:34 AM No.33375786
>>33373927
Are you trying to prove you're still a shit flinging monkey?
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 6:10:23 AM No.33375798
They don't want to save money.
They want the magic of paying someone exorbitant amounts and getting that premium service makes them feel better.
Not a women thing, see guys paying for premium hookers.