I'm have posted here before, I have quit porn and masturbation but my incest fetish remains victorious as the only thing capable of giving me an erection. I have failed to have sex multiple times now so I have to face the fact that I'm impotent

How can I move forward? No girl is going to ever love someone like me

>>33374292 (OP)
Can't you get a girl that also has a thing for incest that will RP with you or something?

Dude it is okay to lose out on having class. You're not gonna get a tradwife, and that is okay. What you need is a girlfriend who is a little bit more experimental than most girls okay. She may have tattoos, piercings, criminal record, drug addictions, bad past, string of boyfriends, and all of that, but she will be willing to deal with you compared to a lot of other women. You need a girlfriend who is as broken and human as you, not a lady who wants one of those surfing dudes who talks about how he's going into accounting after a hiking trip with his friends; women like that would reject every guy on 4chan. Search up egocider or juniper, find someone like her who is nice to you, passionate about you, and enjoys tinkering you, okay. However do clean up the best you can despite it. You don't have to be a hero, you can be human, but it takes real effort to be trash. You're not trash, so don't be it.

>>33374294
Most girls are into that sort of thing and if they were, they would be mentally ill. I am too, but I wish I could remove this part of me as I don't want to indulge in anything related to it; it has destroyed my life

>>33374322
She may be a little mentally ill, and you may have to really be a man to get her to like you, but I'm telling ya bro, you need a girl who is as human as you are.

>>33374319
>You're not trash, so don't be it.
How could I become a better man? It's true that I'm not normal, although when I was a kid I was way more adjusted than now so I'm wondering if I could get back to that point

>>33374340
You remember the character Peter in the bible? Peter made so many mistakes everyday, but what seperated him from Judas was that he continually kept on trying.

>>33374368
That's true Anon. Do you think God can forgive me? I did ignore all the warnings, I don't know if that counts as blasphemy against the Holy Spirit thus making myself irredeemable

As of now I'm impotent, I don't know if I can heal, I don't know I feel really discouraged

>>33374292 (OP)
Literally just don't look at porn or masturbate for 90 days

I'm not a nofap guy or anything but if you need to resensitize and maintain erections and you're not 400lbs and over 40, it just takes a few months

>>33374424
Anon, if God can forgive murderers before their execution, I'm sure he'll forgive you. You may be thinking, "Oh that means I can do whatever I want and go to heaven!" And that isn't how it works. It is about trying your best to be decent no matter what. Repentence is not about perfection but trying your best. Repentence is God saying he's proud of you getting a D despite balls to the wall trying your best with F's all the time. Repentence is your willpower OP. God forgives you for your weakness but you got to keep trying.

>>33374441
Yeah I haven't been doing this for that long, although I want to permanently quit porn and masturbation and not do it ever again, it has destroyed me in ways I didn't think were possible

>>33374444
Thank you Anon, I will save this message. I will keep trying, mainly because it's the only way I could ever live with myself. Because if I relapsed it would only make me think I'm a fraud so I can't go back to that

>>33374319
Aw cute redemption arc of the sluts and incels

>>33374292 (OP)
its simple, just imagine she is related to you before you fuck.

I had similar issue for a long time. Literally just no porn or masturbation for 90 days and your dick will work fine. Also take some viagra or cilias before you have sex. I guarantee you it will work.

>>33377217
This!!!
And, in case needed, see an urogolist. Don‘t hesitate!

>>33377217
I heard that if you don't touch your dick for a long time it stops working too, is that true? I tried NNN and for some reason it seemed to diminish my libido.

>>33374292 (OP)
You need to take out the garbage from your mind OP but also put something clean in it, then you'll stop having those thoughts and will lead a happier life

I'm not even a jew but this playlist helps me a lot, i highly recommend it
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLfeqUDL5aojZS7YxI79EsO0YQ5pxORGok

>>33374292 (OP)
>I have quit porn and masturbation
>I have failed to have sex multiple times
Doesnt sound like you've repented at all.

>>33374292 (OP)
You fried your brain with porn and indulging absurd fantasy that'll never happen. You need to give it time to heal. The longer you stop watching porn and indulging this incest thought, the more your behavior will normalize.
Look, bro... The first couple times I had sex I had trouble performing and thought I was impotent too. You're not. Sex with a new girl is a lot of pressure, it's not quite clear how you're supposed to please a particular woman, you have to take the lead, and stoke her up before giving her what she wants. It's kind of normal for your first couple experiences to be disappointing.
My problem was jorking it too much and taking adderall and smoking cigarettes, vasoconstriction is the enemy of an erection. I just happened to be too busy to jerk off for a few days before running into an old friend from school and landing a date late that night. I was so horned-up in the back of my mind that all of a sudden these sexual behaviors which were scary to me operating on auto-pilot. I was direct, decisive, took her back to my dorm room and busted a rope all the way up to her tits.
Just give it time, quit jerking off, and go into a date horny.