>>33374413 (OP)Porn is gross. Focus that energy on finding a girlfriend. Fuck dating apps, that shit is for whores and retards. The hardest and most important part of dating is expanding and engaging your social circles. You need to make friend groups and engage with them regularly. When I was in college I played music, went to parties, and invited people to run the river in my raft. You can be active through your church, play TTRPGs, go to outdoor groups, etc. Do not expect to approach random women at the gym, bar, or on the street, it doesn't work. You have to meet them in a low stakes situation like a work party, and circle around each other like dogs. Girls who already have boyfriends are still valuable friendships, they will hook you up with their single friends.
If you can't figure out how to small talk to women some pickup artist advice about how to make small talk is helpful. Don't take it as gospel though, you don't want to exploit insecure retards, just learn how to talk to women and find a girlfriend.
If you're motivated and not retarded you will find a girlfriend but you have to work on positioning yourself for success. Pay your own rent, keep your room, house, and car clean, stay in shape, get good at chatting, etc. You can do it.
