Can't hear or think about casual sex without getting upset - /adv/ (#33374699) [Archived: 360 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/17/2025, 12:49:50 AM No.33374699
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Hello /adv/ bros, throughout my entire life I have always gotten super upset over hearing or thinking about casual sex, I am not asexual, I think about sex, I am not sexually traumatized, I have never been in a relationship or have had sex (21 btw) but everytime I hear someone talk about a hookup or being passed around it genuinely makes me angry and disgusted. I was on xitter and I saw a green text talking about some tranny talking about getting high talking about their sexual inexperiences then getting passed around by their friends, and it just lit a fire in me as usual when I hear about this stuff.

What should I do about this, it seems to effect my ability to relate and socialize with others, I keep losing friends over my criticisms of their lifestyles and what I perceive to be constant sexual talk.
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 7:09:07 AM No.33375996
>>33374699 (OP)
Your body/subconscious is angry at you for depriving it of what it wants most. There are realistically three options

1. Have sex
2. Cut out most/all friendships and other personal relationships so you're not exposed to sex talk
3. Cold plunge yourself by forcing yourself to endure sex talk until your body can tolerate
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 7:19:00 AM No.33376016
>>33375996
This guy is a fag
>>33374699 (OP)
That's conviction telling you that they are degenerates. Anyone who commits fornication/adultery is an abomination to God
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 7:28:17 AM No.33376036
>>33374699 (OP)
Bro, you sound normal. Maybe a little weird if you're, losing friends over your opinions on the matter, but it sounds like your friends are weird fags, anyway. Casual sex is a disgusting abomination. The entire point of sex is procreation. When you have sex with a woman you're creating an emotional and spiritual bond, the point of which is to build the life partnership and stability upon which a family can be raised. Sometimes you meet someone, have sex with them a few times, and realize it's not going to work out, but the will to create something long-term should always be present. It's okay to communicate your own morals and values but don't preach down at your friends for their decisions. Best to find friends and community who align with your beliefs. Idk, bro, maybe consider going to a church that aligns with you spiritually. At least then if you meet friends through church they probably won't be degenerates.
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 7:31:05 AM No.33376041
>>33376036
>At least then if you meet friends through church they probably won't be degenerates.
>Anon forgot about wolves in sheep's clothing
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 7:35:00 AM No.33376062
>>33376016
>if you want to have sex with women you are gay
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 7:36:43 AM No.33376067
>>33376062
>t.adulterer
>Come let us be like them who have sex out of marriage, let us defile the flowers and make unholy soulties
>My child do not follow their footsteps for their ways lead to the grave
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 7:40:44 AM No.33376084
>>33376041
>>Anon forgot about wolves in sheep's clothing
If the goal is to raise a family, the ends justify the means.
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 7:55:25 AM No.33376141
don't ever criticize your friends, no one fucking cares. shut your mouth and know your role. you are not someone's parents, you have literally zero entitlement to judge anyone. at some point you got a fucked up personality that tells you your opinion needs to be heard at all, but it doesn't. internalize that
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 7:56:28 AM No.33376146
>>33376141
>t.Tumblrina
But yes, if OP brings it up they will get anal