I'm 25 but I've always had a thing for older women. I don't look particularly attractive, I have gotten some attention from girls my age at very specific moments in my life but never with an older woman. How could I become attractive enough for older women who look like Christina Hendricks?

Bump

I have the opposite problem. At 30 I just broke up with my 39 year old gf. My last gf was 31 when I was 28. It's about quiet confidence, humor, smiling and being a bit soft spoken rather than loud. Otherwise idk

>>33378948 (OP)
>I have gotten some attention from girls my age
In my experience prowling cougars are actually less attracted to a guy who is successful with young ladies. You need to be the more sweet guy nobody gives a chance and they'll start throwing you attention.

I know because in the past I've had the reverse problem (lots of old ladies talking to me constantly but women my age ignoring me).

>>33380160
>>33380165
disagree, women mostly want the same thing
>>33378948 (OP)
self-improvement. get fit, a better job, an active social life

>>33378948 (OP)
Mandatory:
Live alone
Well groomed
Anything that even smells of manchild is an automatic no for them

You also gotta seem like you get pussy your own age and aren't innocent. NEVER mention her age, she wants to think you consider her just another attractive woman, not attractive BECAUSE she's older
She also expects you to be extra confident, the kind of guy to see her and pick her up, no boyish hesitation

>>33378948 (OP)
Go to a sleazy bar just before closing

>>33380175
>>33380794
>Pretending older women aren't into boys
baka OP needs to tune you anons out.

>>33380165
Same here, I've never gotten attention from girls my age. I've been with two 35s, a 32 and a 39 year old. 7-12 years older than me at the time

Also I've found they appreciate muscles and cooking skills much more than younger women do

every woman is different and likes different things. get to know one first. be a man first and foremost. car, house/place, job, work out, read, travel, have projects, think decades ahead.

>>33378948 (OP)
Just go ahead and talk to them. They are old enough to look right through all of your tricks, so they will naturally follow your lead, if both of you have the same goal.
They will look over your spilled spaghetti as long as you put effort in your actions.
And listen to what they say! Usually they play less games, are better communicators and are more direct about their wants and needs.

Why would you want older women? They're used up. Younger women are better in nearly every way.
t. 38 year old