How do I become more confident and not let women in relationships take charge?

I've realized that the reason I prefer more dominant women in relationships is because I'm autistic and doubt my decisions when it comes to other people, so i let her make a lot of decisons, since shes more normal and thus has a better judgement.

For example if she said "lets go somwhere" I might say "okay lets go to the historica section of the library and check out some old photos of the city", but if I ask her, she would say "lets go have a picnic at the park and then walk to pier and watch the sunset" So i say yes because thats the more normal thing to do. But as time goes on she starts making more decisions for us, and I slowly pull back as I just want more time to be alone.

However when I'm alone I make tons of decisions for myself and will often plan out entire events and activities on my own, as long as its just me doing those things.

>>33378987 (OP)
>I might say "okay lets go to the historica section of the library and check out some old photos of the city", but if I ask her, she would say "lets go have a picnic at the park and then walk to pier and watch the sunset"
Both seem acceptable to me. Fuck always trying to be "normal." Do what is interesting, useful and cool.

>>33378987 (OP)
>let women in relationships take charge
don't ever do this. They will fuck your life over. If a single mother can fuck up their son, imagine what a "dominant" woman can do?

Very few women can think beyond thier emotions. Very few, no matter how reasonable they look and sound.

>>33378987 (OP)
Nice

>>33379012
Thats the thing, what is cool to me is rarely cool to anyone else. I had a bad relationship in the past because she was bored to death of the things I wanted to do, so I started letting her make the decisons just so she wouldnt be annoyed all the time.That is what I want to work on

>>33379152
I know this, but I just get tired of being in charge when all my decions are at odds with what normies do.