Thread 33379744 - /adv/ [Archived: 331 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/18/2025, 6:45:34 AM No.33379744
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Anyone here with aspergers managed to get a gf? How'd you do it?
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Anonymous
7/18/2025, 6:49:46 AM No.33379760
>>33379744 (OP)
Yeah
I told / showed girls that I found them attractive and wanted love / sex.
A couple of them were into it. Granted, not the most attractive girls, but it'll do.
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Anonymous
7/18/2025, 6:53:46 AM No.33379771
>>33379744 (OP)
>>33379760
Why, what's your problem?
Yeah the dating market sucks now but eh whatever. So long as you're happy with your life trajectory, happy with showing your horny, and at least mildly attractive, it should work eventually.
You probably won't be the #1 option but you can be the most convenient option. Is that your goal?
A lot of people would rather be insecure and maidenless than happy being the easy horny option. If those are your morals it's cool but you probably won't get a girlfriend.
Anonymous
7/18/2025, 7:13:51 AM No.33379835
I managed to find someone who was just easy to talk to via Tinder.

Before that, I used these icebreakers to get dates and short term relationships:
> MTG Ixalan draft at LGS. We swapped Dino facts.
> Cute MTF saw my Tyranids while I was playing at that same LGS.
> Wrote my OkCupid profile to appeal to book nerds and fanfiction enjoyers. Got lots of chats that turned into dates.

Donโ€™t be afraid of crashing out if you sperg too hard. It got so much easier when I stopped overthinking.
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Anonymous
7/18/2025, 7:16:34 AM No.33379844
>>33379744 (OP)
Undiagnosed but I brute forced it with different people until I fucked someone and got a girlfriend. Because of my childhood my shame receptors have basically been burnt out I do not care.
Anonymous
7/18/2025, 8:36:32 AM No.33380022
>>33379835
>Cute MTF saw my Tyranids while I was playing at that same LGS.
"Just be gay, bro!"
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Anonymous
7/18/2025, 8:44:49 AM No.33380029
>>33379835
OP asked about getting a gf, not getting a mentally ill bf that wishes he was a girl.
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Anonymous
7/18/2025, 8:58:08 AM No.33380048
>>33380029
>>33380022
I never got uncomfortable and got the best head in my life.
If someone is fun to be around and gets you hard, why not go for it?
Anonymous
7/18/2025, 9:15:08 AM No.33380065
>>33380022
>>33380029
Take it to >>>/pol/ here at >>>/adv/ we support our Trans allies
Anonymous
7/18/2025, 9:18:25 AM No.33380071
>>33379744 (OP)
They all came to me.
So work out I guess
I have no plan.
Been with my current gf for 8 years.
Anonymous
7/18/2025, 9:22:13 AM No.33380077
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>>33379744 (OP)
>Anyone here with aspergers managed to get a gf?
yeah. changing often too
>How'd you do it?
6'3 and fit. I usually drink a bit, walk up to women and tell them I'm looking for a gf.