Thread 33379968 - /adv/ [Archived: 331 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/18/2025, 8:00:48 AM No.33379968
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I’m infatuated with this broad at my uni and I’m moderately attractive, definitely in her league. But I can’t look her in the eyes or even muster up the courage to speak to her. It’s like when you flip a magnet around and they separate. I find it humiliating, and I feel like a total loser about the whole thing. She’s aware that I find her attractive, which makes things way worse because now I feel pressured to make a good first impression, but I think I’ve already squandered it because of my inaction. Have I completely fucked it? Do I just cut my losses? I’ve never felt this way about a foid before?
Anonymous
7/18/2025, 8:07:18 AM No.33379979
You need to stop blowing it out of proportion. This is a human like you. Yes, you've messed up by putting her on a pedestal — because she has faults like any human — but you can still approach her and strike up a conversation however you see fit. That's the 'first impression' you were talking about.

You're already in there if she already knows she likes you. Not sure why you're ignoring that fact. You're more than a quarter of the way there. And some good advice to keep in mind is that, before this, you weren't even talking to her. After, depending on rejection or not, and if you don't talk to her, nothing will have changed from your previous state. Good luck.
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Anonymous
7/18/2025, 9:27:05 AM No.33380084
>>33379979
Thanks Anon Appreciate it