WHEN I SAY SOMETHING? I TRY SO HARD TO FLY UNDER THE RADAR AND THEY TEAR UP ANYWAY

SHOULD I JUST NOT SAY ANYTHING? IS MY NAME TRAUMATIZING TO THEM AT THIS POINT?

Currently watching her with a hole in my stomach, seeing her become increasingly sad, performing worse and getting no tips, and I don't know what to say to fix it
Wish I hadn't said "I love this girl so much", she was so smiley before I spoke