I want to start by saying I don’t think I’m a super ugly guy. I’m definitely no supermodel or anything but I wouldn’t say I’m absolutely hideously ugly. I made a bumble account last week and I have almost 100 likes. I get like 6 new matches every single day and half the time they message me first.

However, after I reply or send them a message, I get completely ghosted. I’m not even saying or doing anything autistic or stupid, I just reply to their message or comment on something from their profile. Literally every single time I just get ghosted. I think I’ve had like 30 matches so far and not one date.

Can somebody tell me what the fuck is wrong with me? Am I just boring? Am I so autistic that the second I send a message the girl can just sense somehow I’m fucking weirdo autistic nutcase? I have absolutely no idea what I’m doing wrong, and it’s driving me crazy having zero success despite getting so many matches that it’s literally overwhelming.

Should I unironically just kill myself? What the fuck is wrong with me?

If I remember correctly, I think they have bots that give new profiles more likes than usual so that you get a dopamine rush, then shell out some money when it dries out. I remember I got a nice chunk of likes when I gave it a shot, and it slowed down just like yours.

>>33384436 (OP)
The problem is dating apps and picking up girls at the bar is extremely unnatural behavior. It hasn't really improved people's lives. Go back to the old ways, foster social circles, date through your friend group. Party with friend groups, host back yard BBQs or TTRPG sessions, join a church, join a running group, do whatever you need to do to make friends and hang out with groups of people. It's so much easier to talk to women in a social situation where you aren't throwing all your cards on the table or pitching your line as a product in a meat market. People need to circle around each other like dogs in low-stakes friendly socialization before deciding whether they want to date. If you're friendly, normal, and stable a single girl's attraction to you will go from 0 to 100 within 5 minutes of a normal conversation. When she is looking at you, laughing, and engaged in your conversation that's when you ask if she has a boyfriend. Her answer will be pretty fucking clear if she wants you to ask her out on a real date, then that date will be so much less awkward than meeting on a dating app.