>>33385546 (OP)>convince my grilfriend to have sex with me?sex is not something you "convince" anyone of doing, nor is it something you "initiate" given how zoomers love that term
it's the natural conclusion of the escalation of physical intimacy. Like everyone else mentioned holding hands or hugging leads to kissing, kissing leads to caressing, caressing leads to humping, humping leads to sex, generally speaking. Maybe you make a little detour in fingeringville, handjobtown or even oral central.
With someone who's not keen on having sex right off the bat or someone who's never had sex, you constantly have to be aware of how they're responding to you escalating the intimacy and what they're comfortable with. Know when to pull it back or even dial it down.
One girl I was in a relationship with was a virgin (I wasn't) and I was teasing her breasts and pussy for months, eating her pussy for even longer, until she was begging me for sex. Quite frankly I was the one who wasn't fully on board with having sex with her when I found out she was a virgin and I was fine with us just fingering/handjobbing and sucking on each other, I never ever pressured her into having sex.