Sexual intercourse between BF and GF - /adv/ (#33385546) [Archived: 290 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/19/2025, 12:10:24 PM No.33385546
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I have a girlfriend, do you have any tips to I have sex with my grilfriend, I mean how I will convince my grilfriend to have sex with me?
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 12:12:50 PM No.33385552
>>33385546 (OP)
foreplay helps. You don't talk about it, you just get more physical. You can do it like with a sensitive cat, you calmly pet the cat and increase the petting, and watch of the cat's reaction.
Anonymous
7/19/2025, 12:24:53 PM No.33385573
>>33385546 (OP)
>giving relationship to a woman who doesn't have sex with you
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 12:31:39 PM No.33385586
>>33385546 (OP)
Are you actually retarded? Like, seriously.
Anonymous
7/19/2025, 7:25:54 PM No.33386640
>>33385546 (OP)
*Bump*
Anonymous
7/19/2025, 7:32:04 PM No.33386666
>>33385546 (OP)
>how I will convince my grilfriend to have sex with me?
It is vitally important that you don't try. Sex only ever works when both people are enthusiastic about doing it. If one person has to be "convinced", the sex will be terrible.
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 9:17:55 PM No.33387131
>>33386666
But, why convinced to have sex doesn't work?
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 9:41:14 PM No.33387227
>>33387131
>But, why convinced to have sex doesn't work?
If you're so autistic that you don't already know the answer to that question, then it's unlikely that I can explain it to you in a way that you will understand. I can explain to you what it feels like; but I cannot explain to you *why* it feels like that, because the feelings involved are outside anything you have ever experienced, and you would not be able to understand why someone would feel like that.

So I'm afraid you simply need to accept that this is how people feel. If you try to have sex with someone you are not enthusiastic about having sex with, you will not enjoy it. And that is even more true of women than it is of men. The only time you should EVER have sex is if both people are enthusiastic about doing it. If either person isn't, you either wait, or give up.
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 9:46:15 PM No.33387261
>>33387227
If you're not enthusiastic about sex, it's because you're not very intimate with your romantic pal.
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 10:13:52 PM No.33387345
>>33387261
>If you're not enthusiastic about sex, it's because you're not very intimate with your romantic pal.
There are a countless number of possible reasons why someone might not be enthusiastic; but unless you can do something about it (and most of the time you can't) the reason is irrelevant. All that matters is that sex must not happen unless both people really want it to.
Anonymous
7/19/2025, 10:37:04 PM No.33387429
>>33385546 (OP)
>convince my grilfriend to have sex with me?
sex is not something you "convince" anyone of doing, nor is it something you "initiate" given how zoomers love that term

it's the natural conclusion of the escalation of physical intimacy. Like everyone else mentioned holding hands or hugging leads to kissing, kissing leads to caressing, caressing leads to humping, humping leads to sex, generally speaking. Maybe you make a little detour in fingeringville, handjobtown or even oral central.

With someone who's not keen on having sex right off the bat or someone who's never had sex, you constantly have to be aware of how they're responding to you escalating the intimacy and what they're comfortable with. Know when to pull it back or even dial it down.

One girl I was in a relationship with was a virgin (I wasn't) and I was teasing her breasts and pussy for months, eating her pussy for even longer, until she was begging me for sex. Quite frankly I was the one who wasn't fully on board with having sex with her when I found out she was a virgin and I was fine with us just fingering/handjobbing and sucking on each other, I never ever pressured her into having sex.
Anonymous
7/19/2025, 10:57:58 PM No.33387498
>>33385546 (OP)
Isn't it a given you'll have sex if you're together? Unless you're saving it for marriage.