When I hit puberty I tried to get my sister to suck my dick. She didn't, but I felt like a monster about the situation as I got older. We are grown adults now. Do I apologize, or will that just bring up a bad memory for her? I wonder if I might have fucked her up in some degree

>>33386041 (OP)
You can bring it up but don’t mention it explicitly. Just say you apologize for doing things you aren’t proud of.

>>33386041 (OP)
remember the stupid shit they said or did and the guilty is gone

Meh, it could be worse. It's still pretty funny, though.

>>33386041 (OP)
She doesn't think about that at all, and neither should you.

What you resist, persist.
The past happened, but it's nothing compared to now. Are you trying to get her to suck your dick now? No? If not, don't worry about it.

>>33386041 (OP)
Nah, she probably just wrote it off as incurable, subhuman, autistic retardation, which is hardly something to apologize for (something to euthanase, maybe, but not apologize for).