.. im a 35 year old male, been with the same girl for 15 years.. we have sex like once a month sometimes every 2 months... it drives me fucking insane.. always innnitiated by me.. ive gotten to the point where i am just going to start not making the move... is this normal? can people actually go through life not giving a fuck for giving a fuck? i have started thinking if theres something wrong with me, doubting myself... or is it just that some women just cant care that men need this? i dont know... porn will have to do while i figure shit out.

>>33387610 (OP)
>15 years with the same girl
>sex saga
I won't read threads that presuppose that sex is for entertainment rather than procreation and that gf/bf is for evaluating a potential marriage partner.
>while i figure shit out
..will never happen, because OP is a nigger-brained halfwit.

>>33387610 (OP)
I suppose it never occurred to you to talk to her about it?

>>33387610 (OP)
Break up with her. It may only get worse.

>>33387610 (OP)
>always innnitiated by me..
the fact that sex has to be "innitiated" means it's already over.

what do you even do, just poke her ass with your boner in the middle of a worknight until she lets you do your thing while she dissociates?

also what did you think was gonna happen, some people are sick of each other after 15 months, nevermind 15 years.

Women just don't like sex most of the time. Certainly not frequently like men. They don't feel turned on as frequently or as conciously as men do either, especially as they get older, and they have to have some emotional bullshit to get aroused. You either lost touch with her or don't excite her for some reason. You have to play the game. Start taking care of yourself and make it seem like you have an affair going on. If she cares at all, she will try to seduce you. If not then she's probably just cheating on you and getting sexual or emotional gratification--- whatever it is you aren't giving her-- elsewhere. When you do things right they still want to fuck, but it will still never be a want to fuck "enough" for us men

>>33388018
>Women just don't like sex most of the time. Certainly not frequently like men.
If you're talking 35 year old women like OP's sure.

But I've been with girls who had a way bigger sex drive than me.

>>33387610 (OP)

>buying a beer at Kroger
>waiting 10+ minutes at self checkout for themm to card my ID (self checkout employee was with another customer)
>other people are waiting too now
>some other employee standing around nearby
>lady asks if he can scan her ID
>guy says "Ohh, I don't know where the self checkout employee is, he'll be back soon"
>gets back on his phone
>self checkout employee is literally 20ft away, within viewing distance, with a customer from the self checkout
>I point to him and say "He's right over there" in an impatient tone
>employee ignores me
>I say the same thing again
>Employee walks away

Am I the asshole? I highly doubt no one else could have stepped in and carded us.

Trying to be more assertive

>>33387610 (OP)
Be happy and grateful for your life, you fucking retard.

>>33387610 (OP)
I'll take it as a good sign that you still want to have sex with her after 15 years, but why even bother with her? Just jerk off and bang hookers or use some tinder slut. You're enduring the torture of living with a woman without any of the benefit.

>>33387610 (OP)
>is this normal?
yes, long term couples tend to have way less sex, if none at all. Hard to say if it's 50% of all or even more.