How come I'm not interested in having a social life?
>>33388391 (OP)It costs money, is your financial situation such that you prefer the peace of mind of having more to save and invest?
>>33388391 (OP)Chin-scratcher is a howie. I won't read it.
>>33388551But you’ll bump it huh dumbass
>>33388391 (OP)Too sedated by videogames and porn.
Do not worry, it will hit harder than you can ever imagine once you tire of those things.
why would we explain to you what you're not interested in?
for all future anons, please do not engage in this low-effort thread
>>33388708I'm 29 and still not tired of video games
>>33388775U can tell this is op by the bump btw
I'd like to be more social but then I just think I'm subhuman garbage that isn't worthy of being around others, so I never leave my house. Everyone else is better than me in every way. Physically, mentally, skillwise, financially, etc. so I just don't see a point in interacting with anybody as they'll think I'm garbage
>>33388775I got tired of games right around 32-33. It'll happen to you soon enough too (if you're lucky).
>>33388391 (OP)If you're like me it's because you despise being around other people. Literally everything about them disgusts me. Even the sound of them breathing makes me immediately throw on my ear buds so I don't have to hear them simply actively being alive.
The older you get the less you less social you want to be. It simply is a matter of age. Patience and tolerance slowly wear off when you grow up, which is way most people focus on a select group of friends they actually care for.
>>33388775I was tired of videogames at 17, and I stopped playing them entirely at 21. I'm 25 now, and I couldn't imagine playing videogames. You're nuts.
Yeah, I feel like that too. I'm not desperate to have a girlfriend/boyfriend yet everyone around seems to do. The social pressure of not having been in a relationship does feel like shit though
>>33388708>>33392708I'm on nofap and almost never play vidya and I still feel this way desu
Its a chore with no payoff
If I go jogging, hit the gym, go to boxing class etc. I know I'm getting something out of it. What do I get out of trying to show interest in people? Besides wasted time and getting burned over and over
>>33388708I got tired of them when I was a teenager. But I couldn't get people to stop bullying me.
>>33388708Videogames and porn are symptoms of not having a social life, not the cause.
Because you're content. I'm the same way. When I lived next to the office of my work, right in the middle of the city during my mid to late 20s I basically couldn't give less of a shit. I enjoyed socializing with my coworkers and occasionally would go play board games 1-2 times a month with them after work. However, I'd never go anywhere on my own really. I'd spend basically every weekend the same way; sit inside, get groceries delivered, watch TV or play games alone or with friends online, make dinner and go to bed. Kind of regret staying in all that time, but it is what it is.
I'm not gonna get bored of videogames though, they're a good time waster and distraction.
>>33393130Unfortunately I think this is a recursive feedback loop.
>>3339270825 and everytime I try playing a old game I used to adore as a kid out of nostalgia I only get depressed at how easy it is compared to when I was young and a exteme sense of dread that I'm wasting my time on something fucking useless. I hear playing old ROMs is at least better than doomscrolling on your free time, I hardly feel any better. I need more hobbies man
>>33388391 (OP)https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Autism
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asperger_syndrome
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schizoid_personality_disorder
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Avoidant_personality_disorder
take your pick
>>33398768Or he's just introverted. Some people don't have an issue socializing, but don't care enough to actively seek it out.
>>33388391 (OP)Maybe because it‘s just dust and smoke
>>33394107Life is a game in itself. It‘s like playing the arcade game while you are inside a bar in gta. You don‘t play it more then 5 minutes