How do you catch your wife cheating? - /adv/ (#33389019) [Archived: 235 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:36:14 AM No.33389019
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My wife is currently out of town on holiday 'with a friend'. She wouldn't tell me the hotel. She tells me she's on her period without asking. Tells me she's sleeping on the sofa bed, again, without me asking.

I did some digging and found out where she is staying, but it's too far for me to get there.

I know she is lying to me, but I'm trying to figure out a way to call her bluff. Say something that provokes a reaction.

How do I approach this? Suggestions welcome. Gut instinct is going off the charts.
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:42:34 AM No.33389050
>>33389019 (OP)
If theres no trust in a relationship then you might as well cut it off now, you should mentally pack your bags while using this as experience finding red flags. also
>wife
Lmao hope you got a prenup but I guess thats why youre asking you want to avoid being in the alimony cuck cage. What did she pay with was it your credit card or hers? you could go down with the credit card if its in your name + your ID and ask for the room ID and get in her room as a suprise visit and act like you are dropping off something when you are really seeing who shes with. If you are at this point just cancel work and do a stake out or something, I dont know where youd get cameras at this time of night on saturday but if you are married with no prenup you are losing more money by going to work and missing the evidence than if you went to work you need evidence of her cheating. also if you pay the cell phone bill couldn't you get all of her messages from the cell company since its your plan? Regardless of you need to do something having this suspicion isn't normal its worth canceling work to find out what's real.
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:44:15 AM No.33389057
>>33389019 (OP)
You hire a detective for those type of things. It's their bread and butter.
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 10:03:51 AM No.33389812
>>33389019 (OP)
Why do you give a fuck about catching her? If she's cheating, just leave.

>She tells me she's on her period without asking. Tells me she's sleeping on the sofa bed, again, without me asking.
Neither of those is even faintly suspicious, btw.
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 10:16:06 AM No.33389841
>>33389019 (OP)
>How do you catch your wife cheating?
What >>33389057 said; hire a P.I.