is there a guy out there who isn't so sex obsessed? - /adv/ (#33389890) [Archived: 254 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/20/2025, 10:44:01 AM No.33389890
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like don't get me wrong, I think sex is important in a relationship down the line. but cmon now.. some guys start with "send nudes" or "pop a tit". what happened to hello????? how are you????

I just want a bf who doesn't look at me solely for my body. who can laugh and share nerdy interests with me ;-;
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 10:48:23 AM No.33389898
>>33389890 (OP)
If it counts I know a couple people (including myself) who all have issues with sex & is barely a priority
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 11:14:37 AM No.33389947
>>33389890 (OP)
Guys like that often aren't obsessed with sex: they collect nudes INSTEAD of having sex.
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 11:16:22 AM No.33389951
>>33389890 (OP)
It's not even just sex obsession for a lot of them, it's also dudes who think they have to act that way to get/keep your attention because it's "bold" and "masculine". It's insecurity disguised by faux-machismo, which surprise, is really off-putting to anyone with actual self-respect.
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 11:21:04 AM No.33389965
>>33389890 (OP)
The only reason men bother dealing with a woman's shit IS because she offers sex and femininity.
Otherwise she is just deadweight, a never ending cycle of needs and issues.
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 11:23:09 AM No.33389970
>>33389890 (OP)
Stop gravitating towards fuckboys and simps. You can tell who they are just by looking at them. Use your intuition and your gut instinct. Consider that you keep gravitating towards them because you see it as easy attention. You hope they will give you easy love and easy commitment. But you forget the man that moves too quick wants to fuck you quick.
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 11:23:21 AM No.33389971
>>33389890 (OP)
i'm not sex obsessed but extremely mentally ill. Pick your poison.
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 11:23:36 AM No.33389973
>>33389890 (OP)
Wait until marriage to have sex. Hard filter for all coomers and manwhores.