Hi guys, Im currently dating a girl that I do not find sexually attractive. I like everything else about her, though, her personality, her energy etc. But she is just not my type at all. I love masculine white alt girls, but they almost never like me back. As per the advice of my friends - I lowered my standards. Well, the result is dogshit, I'm lying to this girl and myself. I'm a short black cutecel. I suppose I'm going to break things off with this girl eventhough she adores me. How do I find a girl I truly desire?
>>33391356 (OP)Well what does she look like? Describe her or post a picture of a similar girl (obviously don't post her actual photo)
>>33391356 (OP)>cutecelA what?
Anyway if you wanna sabotage a good relationship to chase infatuation that's your decision. Doesn't make you a bad person, just someone who needs a few extra life lessons before things fall into place. One of those lessons is that sustainable and lifelong attraction is something that's built. Not something found. The ones you find appear like a rush, thrilling, overwhelmingly exciting. Then when it fades away, best not look back cuz then it dawns on you that you traded away something real for something fickle and fake.
>>33391356 (OP)Yeah, you should break it off because you shouldn't date people you don't want to fuck. It will hurt her to hear this, however, but it's the truth
