My twin sister and I are both home from college for a few days. We hate each other's guts - I hate her because she was my parents' golden child growing up and used that to antagonize/attack me and get away with it. She hates me because she thinks she's God's gift on earth and generally looks down on people.

We go to different universities and otherwise don't see each other often, so this is one of my few chances to get back at her somehow. I can't think of anything, besides something lazily uncreative like knocking her out and immediately getting arrested. Also if she tells my parents and I don't have plausible deniability, they could throw me out. I don't want to do something clumsily blatant.

She spends most of the day out of the house, idk where she goes. While I've been here usually I've spent most of my time with one or both of my parents, chilling at home or out of the house with them

>>33391807 (OP)
based shut-in future mental patient wanting to assault his sister because she teased him once when they were kids.

>>33391828
This much resentment isn't caused by being teased once, it's from a lifetime of being treated like I'm lesser. My father told me to my face that I wasn't worth as much to him because I was a boy.

She's the most vile person I've ever seen, even when she talks to other people (like other family members) she takes every chance she can get to make jabs at other people or put them down

>>33391807 (OP)
Maybe you should have a little self-respect and stop letting her live in your head?

>>33391855
How is that different from just rolling over and taking it? Someone hurt me so I want to hurt them back

>>33391807 (OP)
There is no "getting even", harming someone as "retribution" only perpetuates things.

The best thing you can do is rise above past mistreatment and live the best life you can regardless of how others think of you. Do it out of spite if you have to.

Harming your sister would just validate her past bullying, if she goes through life looking down on others that is her problem to solve, not yours.

>>33391869
> How is that different from just rolling over and taking it?
Letting it affect your life is what is "rolling back and taking it".
Rising above it and setting a better example, whether it is recognized or not, is the way to overcome mistreatment.

>>33391871
>There is no "getting even", harming someone as "retribution" only perpetuates things.

I guess, but if I don't respond, doesn't that mean that she was right to antagonize me? Because she faced no consequences for what she did. She would obviously prefer it if I didn't retaliate, than if I did retaliate.

I feel like causing some pain for all the pain she caused me would make me feel less weak, and at the very least like I didn't come out on the bottom

>>33391853
are you sure you're not a crazy person who's invented 99% of this inside of his imagination?

You practically sound like that chinese bitch who was putting up ads for her youtube videos that were a link to an ebook talking about gangstalking about how her sister and doctors conspired against her to get her to drop out of university or whatever.

The only way to get "revenge" is to prove them wrong, and live your best possible life.

If you instead act like a crazy person sitting around allday waiting for her to come back from her being outside with friends so you can crack her over the head with a cast iron frying pan, you'll be proving her and your parents and the voices inside your head that you are indeed a terrible person.

>>33391890
> if I don't respond, doesn't that mean that she was right to antagonize me?
Of course not. Life isn't about consequences. They serve to make one a better person, but that does not mean that consequences *must* happen, regardless of what is moral.
> She would obviously prefer it if I didn't retaliate, than if I did retaliate.
I can't say that is true or not, but ultimately in doesn't matter.
Your life is *yours*, not hers, if you want whats best for yourself, you should devote effort to building yourself up rather than tearing others down, no matter how "deserved" it feels

>>33391853
>My father told me to my face that I wasn't worth as much to him because I was a boy.
Ya and you're seething about your sister instead of working to sever your parents from your life (i.e., retarded psychopath)

>>33391911
>Just get successful bro that will show her
OH GOLLY WHY DIDN'T I THINK OF THAT AFTER ALL IT'S A JUST WORLD AND IT'S THAT EASY EVERYONE WHO WANTS TO BE HAPPY JUST GIVES LIFE A FIRM HANDSHAKE AND TAKES IT

>>33391925
your least deranged post ITT so far

>>33391911
>are you sure you're not a crazy person who's invented 99% of this inside of his imagination?

Can any of us be sure that we're not just imagining everything?

>If you instead act like a crazy person sitting around allday waiting for her to come back from her being outside with friends so you can crack her over the head with a cast iron frying pan, you'll be proving her and your parents and the voices inside your head that you are indeed a terrible person.

Yeah hence I said that doing something as clumsy as that would be a stupid idea

I don't believe it's possible to provoke someone this much and expect them not to want to get even

>>33391918
>Your life is *yours*, not hers, if you want whats best for yourself, you should devote effort to building yourself up rather than tearing others down, no matter how "deserved" it feels

I think that I hope that getting even is the next best thing to "undoing" the past. Of course it isn't possible to undo the past though

>>33391930
I'm not OP

>>33391932
>provoke someone this much
you've yet to explain what she actually did to you that would warrant you planning her accidental murder as a grown ass adult with absolutely no mental illness.

>used that to antagonize/attack me
>She's the most vile person I've ever seen, even when she talks to other people (like other family members) she takes every chance she can get to make jabs at other people or put them down
like really nigger, THAT is the most vile person you've ever seen? A teenager who acts sort of bitchy sometimes?

>>33391959
the fuck did you hijack his thread for then

>>33391962
>planning her accidental murder as a grown ass adult with absolutely no mental illness.

I'm not gonna murder her Jesus. I literally said in the post that I'm not going to assault her like a caveman. Just want to think of something to cause her anger or discomfort like idk

>>33391807 (OP)
Don't "go home" for the break. Go on a camping trip or something. If they ask then tell them you don't consider it your home, that you were never welcome there, whatever, or nothing. You might just cease all further contact.

>>33391966
I don't know I read a lot of toxic positivity in advice threads and I'm still on a futile crusade to talk people out of their just-world delusions but NPCs gonna NPC

>>33391807 (OP)
Why aren't you fucking her guts out, faggot

>>33391978
>I literally said in the post that I'm not going to assault her like a caveman.
So what was plan B? Assault her like a medieval-era man?

>>33391925
Its not about success, its about not living purely in relation to others

>>33392000
There is a difference between toxic positivity (yes that is a problem) and not letting problems beyond your control consume you.
You can change your outlook to respond better to hardship without invalidating the fact that they are, in fact, hardships