Anonymous
7/21/2025, 2:20:04 AM No.33393281
At what point is the hot barista more than just service-minded?
>walk into coffe shop for plain, black coffee to go
>completely empty
>barista is in the back, comes out when she sees me at the counter
>cute, blonde girl. hair in ponytail.
>make order, she engages in small-talk, nothing really flirtatious tbqh
>mid-sentence and while perfectly maintaining eye-contact, she lets her hair out and aggressively flaunts it in my face
>pretty much exactly like that Denise Richards scene from Friends
>girl instantly goes from cute to straight up model-tier
>I carry on the conversation without skipping a beat, but I felt that hair flip in my soul
>pay for coffee, casually round off the conversation, she's still pretty chatty, but not really flirtatious
>head out the door
I have a fairly strict policy on not flirting with girls on the clock, since it's usually safe to assume she's just being friendly and service-minded, and if she's hot like this one, she's probably bothered by guys all day to begin with, and I don't want to add to that, but this one was kinda hard to walk away from, bros. I'm not saying she was instant DTF at the mere sight of me or anything, but the urge to escalate the interaction was strong with this one. For what it's worth, there was no option for tipping in this situation, so she wasn't trying to coax money out of me or anything. I figure she just wanted to give me a show.
Should I have made a move? What would you have done?
Just to be clear, I have gotten laid starting in high school, I have been in relationships, I have always gotten attention from girls, and I'm currently somewhat hung up on another girl that I actually know personally, so I'm not so desperate that girls in service jobs are the only ones talking to me. It's just that this girl was so fucking fine, and that hair, my God, that hair.
>walk into coffe shop for plain, black coffee to go
>completely empty
>barista is in the back, comes out when she sees me at the counter
>cute, blonde girl. hair in ponytail.
>make order, she engages in small-talk, nothing really flirtatious tbqh
>mid-sentence and while perfectly maintaining eye-contact, she lets her hair out and aggressively flaunts it in my face
>pretty much exactly like that Denise Richards scene from Friends
>girl instantly goes from cute to straight up model-tier
>I carry on the conversation without skipping a beat, but I felt that hair flip in my soul
>pay for coffee, casually round off the conversation, she's still pretty chatty, but not really flirtatious
>head out the door
I have a fairly strict policy on not flirting with girls on the clock, since it's usually safe to assume she's just being friendly and service-minded, and if she's hot like this one, she's probably bothered by guys all day to begin with, and I don't want to add to that, but this one was kinda hard to walk away from, bros. I'm not saying she was instant DTF at the mere sight of me or anything, but the urge to escalate the interaction was strong with this one. For what it's worth, there was no option for tipping in this situation, so she wasn't trying to coax money out of me or anything. I figure she just wanted to give me a show.
Should I have made a move? What would you have done?
Just to be clear, I have gotten laid starting in high school, I have been in relationships, I have always gotten attention from girls, and I'm currently somewhat hung up on another girl that I actually know personally, so I'm not so desperate that girls in service jobs are the only ones talking to me. It's just that this girl was so fucking fine, and that hair, my God, that hair.
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