Why can't I get anyone I know to introduce me to someone? I've had no luck otherwise, but when I ask, they all tell me "You're a good guy, you'll find someone eventually". When I ask for help, nobody takes me seriously, it's either that or they say they will, but it never happens. What is going on?

Family, friends, coworkers, doesn't matter. No one offers to introduce me to anyone, and if I ask, it never happens.

>>33393522 (OP)
That's a easy let down phrase.
They don't want to do anything (it's not really thier job), and don't think you'll ever do it.

Don't dwell on it.
Let go of that goal and self image, and find other things to be happy about.

>>33393558
I can't have an optimal life that way. If I live like that, I'll end up dead in my 60s.

>>33393522 (OP)
The truth is that nobody really knows who is perfect for you... expect YOU.

My mother introduced me to two chicks. Both of them were daughters of her life long friends. I introduced myself and got to know them, and unfortunately we didn't click. The lesson I learned was that you should never let others make decisions for you when it comes to picking dates or who to meet, because they don't understand your preference & who would be ideal for you.

And yeah... it does suck. Not finding the love of your life can feel frustrating, but it's better to be lonely & happy, rather than be with someone & miserable.

>>33393713
Lonely and alone are not the same fucking thing. They're completely different. You can be alone and happy, but not lonely and happy.

>>33393522 (OP)
That seems to be the norm, OP.

>>33393522 (OP)
Dang. I've always been too proud to ask someone for help. Also I've preferred to keep my social circles segmented from each other. Considering asking my siblings lately, though. They all have better social lives than me.

>>33393522 (OP)
>Why can't I get anyone I know to introduce me to someone?
You're not supposed to need anyone to introduce you to someone. It's not their job.
How many of your friends and family members have YOU introduced someone to and fixed them up?

>>33393563
>I can't have an optimal life that way.
You already don't have an optimal life. If you did, you'd be able to meet people on your own.