I slightly criticized her and then she started crying using emotional manipulation so I got pissed off and told her to STFU and I did this. Now she cried herself to bed and now she’s sleeping. Did I overreact?

either this is bait or OP is a knuckledragging retard who only beats people who can't fight back

>>33393549
Well she’s my wife, and I am a very strong person.

>>33393542 (OP)
Open hand or closed fist? You're wrong either way, btw, it's just that the former makes you an abusive asshole, but the latter makes you straight-up sub-human.

>>33393542 (OP)
Perhaps couples art therapy will heal the situation

>>33393542 (OP)
Based. Post pics?

>>33393542 (OP)
Yes, anon. You're a piece of shit. I didn't even do that after my whore of an ex-wife cheated on me..

>>33393542 (OP)
Inshallah you have both learned something today

>>33393542 (OP)
she wanted drama and you gave it to her. she's going to act out the rest of her routine. Next time don't be an actor in her play and if you need to hit her once is enough and not in the face.

>>33393572
>I am a very strong person
No you're not, a woman crying makes you regress into a tantrum-throwing child who melts down.

>Did I overreact
You wailed and beat on a woman for crying. Take a guess.

>>33393542 (OP)
Women need to be beaten like this regularly. You only overreacted if there are legal or social repercussions. We do in fact live in a society. I have had two long term girlfriends and have hit both of them, only on a couple of occasions each.

The first one was because she assaulted me repeatedly until I lost my temper, she was punching me in the face as hard as she could and blocking me from leaving the room. I did everything I could to avoid it but in the end I had no choice but to hit her back to get her to stop. That was like crossing the Rubicon, once you realize that nothing magic happens when you hit a woman and actually they deserve it, then it's easier the second time.

I only hit her one other time when she took away my keys and wallet and locked me out of the house when I had to go to work. She was making me late and could have got me fired. All over an absolutely retarded fight she started over nothing. But I remembered I could get one of the windows open so I ran around the house towards it, she realized and also ran to get it shut, but I beat her to it and was already half inside by the time she got there. When she saw she just froze, it was weird like she knew she was about to get hit and I knew I was about to hit her, even though I wasn't usually violent and she did retarded shit like that often. It was like it was my duty, like you fucked up idiot, get hit. So I walked towards her, frozen in fear, and smacked her full force in the side of the head, took my wallet and keys, and went to work.

The next girlfriend was because she cheated on me, we tried to carry on the relationship but I lost my temper a couple of times when she was telling really insulting obvious lies to me or would start giving me attitude. No real excuse apart from that she deserved it. Not a good time for me.

It's actually a totally natural and normal part of every relationship I will elaborate further in the next post.

>>33394709
>It's actually a totally natural and normal part of every relationship

No it's not. If you would question if those relationships were normal or abnormal, then you'd realize its not normal behaviour in normal relationships. It's only normal in abnormal relationships.

Your last relationships were dysfunctional as fuck. Not normal at all. You dated a man-beating BPD-coded chick, then you fell for another harpy who cheated you. You attracted and got attracted to two trashy women and from that you got into dysfunctional relationships. And they brought out the worst in you. Don't call that normal, man. You ain't even experienced normal.

>>33394709
So men beating their woman regularly has been a part of every single human society forever, and even pretty much all higher primates. How can this be? If this was a bad thing, then it would have phased out of society, as those who did that failed and those who didn't prospered with strong and confident wahmen taking their rightful place alongside men.

This has not happened because women get themselves hit by men ON PURPOSE as part of their mating behaviour. ALL women will have breakdowns and push and push and push and do anything they can to deserve to get hit, then cry and make a big scene when they get hit, then go to their man for comfort. I don't really understand the point of this particular shit test. I only ever hit the two women I was really committed to spending my life with, the others I just left when they started acting up. So there is probably something to that.

I suppose my best theory is that women are mentally children, and so they need to know that their man can discipline them and keep them in line, ergo they can do the same to a child, or potentially even to other men. It's like testing your man's ability to set firm boundaries and take decisive action when they are crossed.

This is only a theory though, I don't really know why. But I can say for certain that women want this to happen. The old trope of 'she was asking for it', once this happens to you enough times you realize there is a reason for it. The goal of certain behaviours from women is getting hit for its own sake.

>>33394722
I made mistakes for sure, but I have seen this in every relationship. Sometimes the man hits the woman, usually he doesn't. ONLY when the man hits the woman does he retain some level of respect from her. It's crazy man I have seen it so many times.

>>33394728
>So men beating their woman regularly has been a part of every single human society forever, and even pretty much all higher primates. How can this be? If this was a bad thing, then it would have phased out of society

So assfucking the young has been a thing in every single human society forever, and even pretty much all higher primates. If this was a bad thing, then it would have phases out of society

>>33394735
hotttt

>>33394734
>I made mistakes for sure
No, forget your mistakes a minute. I ain't putting you on trial. I am pointing out that you got abused. You know that right? You suffered abuse, terrible abuse in your first relationship. You got your mind scrambled to shit.

Pause and think a moment. Consider the tier list of bad human behavior, ranked from lowest to most severe:
>Shouting
>Cussing
>Lying
>Stealing
>Isolating victims/kidnapping/locking them inside
>Cheating
>Physical assault (tied with or lesser than cheating depending on who you ask)
>Sexual assault (tied with or lesser than physical depending on who you ask)
...
>Murder

Your first ex there was really high up on that ladder. Just one step from killing you. You're aware of this right?

>>33394740
Yes I know that, she was a complete psychopath. I had a lot of childhood trauma and was always unhappy so at that time I couldn't really recognize that I should just leave. I thought no one else would ever love me and although this was not true, it is the case that I am not a very likeable person.

>>33393542 (OP)
OP this >>33394709 is why you shouldn't post shitty bait, retards will take you seriously and take you as a role model, specially considering half of 4chan consists of easy to manipulate edgy teenagers
I knew a retard who got psyop'd by /b/ into sniffing her sister's panties and ended up disowned

>>33393542 (OP)
Nice

>cried herself to bed and now she’s sleeping
this is very bad. literal trauma right there. never go to sleep crying/with problems.
>>33394952
keeek classic

man i would never hit a woman, but they still need to be put in their place,if they are acting wrongly.
maybe holding her in place tightly by her shoulders/wrists and really tell her sternly and with a grim/furious face how she fucked up and how dissapointed you are with her.

my grandparents would destroy furniture, throw plates or cooking items at the walls but never physicly harm the other human.

>>33393572
Anyone who treats his belonging like that doesn't respect himself thus, I get to piss on your face