This is a bizarre one but I assure you I am 100% serious. I asked on relevant r*ddit pages but it got removed from every one because no one believed it was real, but it is. I feel like I'm going crazy with this shit but I can't talk to anyone about it IRL.

I'm white with an Asian girlfriend, who when we met had only recently moved to a western country. She had previously only ever been with Asian men. After we first had sex she didn't really say too much about my penis other than 'I don't know what's normal for western men', quite unenthusiastically. Since that time she has said certain things that would imply it is a little small for her liking but she is trying to make me feel better:
>I don't care about size, the person is more important
>You don't need to worry, it's big enough for us
>It doesn't matter if it's big or small, I still enjoy it

So what is the measly little nub which elicits such a reaction? It's 9 inches long by 6 around.

We have been together for years now and I explained to her earlier in the relationship that I am much bigger than average, even for western men, that's when she would say stuff to me like that. I thought she understood finally but recently I made a joke about how silly that was, and she said she still doesn't know that. I was absolutely indignant, she obviously thinks I lied about it which is stupid because that would be very out of character for me. She just keeps saying things like 'but I've only seen your one, how can I know that?'. She sort of condescendingly said to me 'Every man thinks he has the best one', which again is retarded because I am very straightforward about my strengths and my shortcomings, I'm not the type of person to be like that without reason.

If it's really so big, how does it fit into a tiny Asian pussy?

I think the problem is a combination of Asian stereotypes of western men, and porn.

She already had it in her head that white guys have big cocks, and she exclusively chooses porn with the big dicks. Mine is STILL bigger than most of them for fucks sake, but obviously they use various tricks to enhance the size. She was completely oblivious to porn when she first saw it, like she didn't even understand that they were actors she thought they were just normal people filming themselves fucking. I'm talking about pro shot, big studio, obviously fake and badly acted porn too, not even the faux-amateur stuff. So that has skewed her perceptions, and I have tried to explain porn to her and why it isn't realistic, as well as telling her various things that other girls said about my dick. But she still doesn't seem to believe me.

It really deeply offends me that she thinks I am just making up all these wild stories just to convince her I have a big dick, that is more important to me than the ego thing. But the ego thing is also important, I know I was very lucky, but if the one bitch on my dick all the time doesn't even appreciate it, am I really lucky? Even though our sex life is still good and other things in the relationship are good, I am tempted to throw her in the trash for this alone so I can find someone who appreciates what she has.

I even went to the lengths of showing her studies on average size by race, so she could see that the difference between Asians and all other races isn't actually that much. Think of how pathetic that is, I'm sitting there frantically explaining what a standard deviation is to some disinterested whore just to prove myself to be adequate. Like, imagine if you could bench 200kg and your dumb bitch said to you 'I don't care if you're not very strong, you're strong enough for me'. You might leave her for that alone right? I am not sure if I am overreacting or what. This whole situation is really baffling to me.

>she didn't really say too much about my penis other than

>>33393814
It doesn't, I can't even put half of it inside her until we've been fucking a while, and I have never put the entire thing inside her unless it's basically flaccid because I'm drunk or we've already been fucking for hours or whatever.

>>33393850
Usually girls say a lot about it. Actually, at one point she showed me her diary and I went to the entry from the first day we has sex to see if she mentioned it. She actually said it was really big, but then what she said after suggested it had confirmed what she previously thought about white guys, like she was pleasantly surprised that the stereotype turned out to be true.

>>33393780 (OP)
this isn't about your penis size, its about her weird dismissive comments. I had a gf like this, who just acted like I was a stranger in a bar sometimes talking about someone elses appearance when it was mine. Her brain was also warped by porn and I'm a bigger guy too. Idk, you just picked a bad gf. desu. all the advice I have for you. won't check thread again.

>>33393887
>She actually said it was really big, but then what she said after suggested it had confirmed what she previously thought about white guys, like she was pleasantly surprised that the stereotype turned out to be true.
What? That contradicts everything you wrote before.

>>33393780 (OP)
Anon I knew a fat, white girl who said she only fucked guys with 12 inch cocks. I thought she was kidding. Nope. She would be single for long periods of time and when she would start seeing someone, she would always say how huge he was.

What I am saying here is some girls are retarded. I have a 5.5 inch cock and I have made every girl I've ever fucked red in the face, sweating and moaning my name. You don't need a 9 incher to pull that off

>>33393780 (OP)
Anon, she's an Asian woman. She's trying to mindfuck you and she's winning. Does she let you hit? Do you enjoy it? Then keep doing it and don't worry about what she thinks.

>>33393895
Well yes precisely, but it's really odd because she is the complete opposite to that with everything else. She is really supportive of me to the point that it is even a little excessive. So although you are correct that the issue is not about my size but her attitude, that's not actually her attitude most of the time, only about the dick and sex related stuff.

Thank you for your strangely passive-aggressive comments even if you don't see this reply.

>>33393906
What I wrote before was what she said IRL to me, that other post was written in her diary and I didn't see it until like 2 years later. I forget the exact wording but it was like 'wow it was big, seems like that really is true about western men'. So like she did think it was big compared to Asians, but thought that was normal for western men, which it seems she still thinks to this day. This is the issue, or more so the issue is that she doesn't believe me and thinks I would tell all these elaborate lies about this and for what reason???

>>33393780 (OP)
>have 9" cock
>still not good enough, need constant validation and comparison to others
Men you are so sad. I cannot imagine caring so much about the tightness of my pussy or whatever.

Another thing I forgot to mention is it was really hard to find condoms when we used to use them, she was with me as I struggled to find big enough ones because the XLs which were already in VERY FEW supermarkets or pharmacies were too small. Presumably she thought all western men use XXXLs??????????????? Like for fucks sake. Who the fuck is using all the regular sized ones for fucks sake. I can not even put into words how fucking stupid this dumb bitch is. I might just straight up punch her in the fucking head when she gets home. Fucking retard.

>>33393947
No she's not because I read her diary so I got to see her actual thoughts. She's just fucking retarded.

>>33393780 (OP)
Anon, I've read this and your responses and I think to really understand the issue here I am going to have to see a picture of your dick

>>33393961
>No she's not because I read her diary so I got to see her actual thoughts. She's just fucking retarded.
>he fell for the diary gambit
Anon, you are so innocent.

>>33393916
So your saying there are multiple guys walking around your town with 12 inch cocks (for reference Dredd is actually barely over 7 in length, Lex Steele is only 6.8in, Jack Trade is really only 8 inches, Mr. RedVelvet is 10.5 and Jax Slayher is just under 10) and this one fat chick has a fucking monopoly on them? I would believe OP's asian wife exists and telling the truth before I'd believe you. Also why the fuck would you waste a 9 inch BWC on a slant? This whole thread reeks of cap.