I'm about to turn 21 and have no idea what I'm supposed to do. Any ideas? - /adv/ (#33395330) [Archived: 139 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/21/2025, 3:35:35 PM No.33395330
pepeparents
pepeparents
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FSR I've always done shit with my parents

(probably bc i'm asian)

Like just going to a restaurant and eating Chinese slop

But idk I feel like people should be going out and doing stuff with their bros

Like I do have bros / homies, but it's a long story and I've got like 3-4 disparate groups of bros and it's not like I can just hang out with em ALL

I'm a rising senior in college and a guy
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 5:18:53 PM No.33395519
>>33395330 (OP)
This board is for asking advice, not for creative writing.
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 6:48:13 PM No.33395841
>>33395519
This board is for giving advice, not for accusing anything undesirable you read of being made up
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 6:53:53 PM No.33395871
>>33395330 (OP)
>3-4 disparate groups of bros
Pick one otherwise you'll always be a floater.
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 7:59:34 PM No.33396122
wojakbetter
wojakbetter
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>>33395871
What if one group is Chinese and another is white

What if one group is intelligent and the other is idiotic

What if one group is religious and hates fun, and another is irreligious and has fun

Think you're right at core though, which is kind of unfortunate. Feel like this is something I should've made up my mind years ago though.

I fucking hate myself
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Anonymous
7/22/2025, 1:39:45 AM No.33397751
bump
Anonymous
7/22/2025, 6:46:17 PM No.33400500
bump2 fuck this shit
Anonymous
7/22/2025, 7:05:18 PM No.33400570
>>33396122
>I fucking hate myself
first of all, put your pathetic self pity in the garbage where it belongs
secondly, just stick to your principles regardless of who you hang out with and nourish whatever friendships you think will be the most resilient after college.
you can be the token intelligent guy in the group of idiots, or the one principled guy in the irreligious fun havers, whatever man. just meet people where they are, hang out with them, be considerate. after all, they were cool enough to invite you to the function every now and then.
the closest friends I have are different from me in a lot of ways, but they know where I stand on things. thatโ€™s just life baby