About a month and a half ago a girl was giving me heavy signals in gym, have not seen her for a while until today.
tldr of first encounter
>she wanted me to show her how a machine works
>she stared at me a lot and seemed very interested
>made small talk but not a lot of it
>she went on the treadmill next to me
>didn't really try to get her number while I did have a heavy opener because I was still moving on from a heavy breakup

today:
>finally see her at the gym again
>we haven't spoken at all, not even a hello
>one part of me wants to give this a chance other part doesn't
>come up with hundreds of reasons such as:
>>I will be gone for university to a different city that's far away and will rarely visit my home city
>>I have no clue if she's interesting or not
>>I have no idea if it will be cringe if I ask her out now
>>I have a different haircut now
>>it's a fucking gym of all places
>finish my workout and go change
>feel shit on the way home

Did I do the right thing? Considering I will not be here for long and it will lead to a inevitable breakup (if this even works) because I will have to leave and not up for a LDR. I still am pretty fucked up from all experiences with women and need half a year of a break. Maybe I just saw a opportunity because a woman gave me chance before. I'm pretty handsome but fall for stuff like this a lot.

>>33395342 (OP)
You made the right choice. You thought about pursuing a relationship, but you already know that it wouldn't work out because of other life factors. Doing nothing, which you did, was the best choice

>>33395366
The thing is that I maybe could have been back home for about 2 days a week but that's just so tiring and pointless. I seriously don't want to pursue a cringe long distance relationship. Don't even know how much I can trust her and if anything I need some time on my own.
I appreciate it, I totally sound like I'm trying to make this work no matter how ridiculous that sounds.

>>33395342 (OP)
You're definitely catastrophizing and thinking in black and white. Regardless, if you were the slightest bit interested, you could've at least asked her out for coffee.

>>33395371
You keep repeating that you don't want a long distance relationship and you couldn't have any other if you chose to date her. Just re-read your own posts, you make the argument best yourself

>>33395404
It's that I don't have immediate interest in a girl unless it's someone I will vibe with. I don't look for women who are just beautiful because most of the time they literally have no personality and are plain boring besides sex. If I got to know this girl and she would turn out great then maybe I wouldn't have a problem with being with her despite the circumstances but I'm still unsure. University would give me someone who would be there an entire week. What I knew for certain is that this girl was falling for me then and I had chances.

>>33395447
How do you know there will be a vibe if you don't get to know them first?

>>33395467
Few reasons why I don't approach and I'm being 100 honest here
>I'm afraid of rejection
>lose lose situation
>if we get along then it will be hard to turn into long distance,
>if it doesn't work out then there's a chance of awkward rejection + same gym

>>33395485
Then it's your call. She was giving you green lights to ask her out, but now you feel bad about it because you didn't do anything.