>be me
>meet girl on some game in 2020
>get along really fucking well
>get really close
>end up dating
>2 years pass by
>we mutually agree to break up and not end things in a messy matter
>dont really feel like getting into why
>we both cut contact from eachother
>dont overstep any boundaries or anything
>notice she blocked me on discord like a few months ago, maybe a year ago
>"okay thats weird whatever"
>time goes by
>decide to randomly send her a message on the game just saying hi and that i hope shes been well after not speaking for 3 years (this was like 2 weeks ago)
>she just says "thanks you too"
>back off and leave it at that
>a week or so passes by and notice shes unblocked me on discord
what the fuck does this mean? for what reason would she unblock me if she had no intention of talking? am i reading too far into it or some shit? she definitely knows how i feel about her still but if she wanted to reconnect or something why doesnt she say something? i dont want to be weird or overstep any boundaries by calling her out but it feels like shes baiting me to do it at this point. i really just miss talking to her even if we dont reconnect romantically it'd probably light up my world if we were just friends or acquaintances again instead of complete strangers

also im 90% sure she has a boyfriend which makes all of this even weirder

>>33395654 (OP)
I don't get how you people manage to be so absolutely socially retarded and yet manage to get girlfriends. Just leave her alone retard. Move the fuck on.

>>33395667
????
you're a desne motherfucker if you dont think it means SOMETHING
>Move the fuck on
believe me ive tried, any time i talk to a new girl or something i come to the realization its not her and just lose all interest

>>33395654 (OP)
>should i confront her?
no
>what the fuck does this mean?
>she has a boyfriend
it means that you should block her and move on

>>33395654 (OP)
One, how did you even notice you got blocked then unblocked, that is fucking weird obsessive behaviour.

Two, you can either ignore her or ruin her, she'll never be the same girl you fell in love with but you can fuck her over with her new relationship lol

>>33395654 (OP)
>I won't explain why we broke up burt can you explain why she doesn't want to be my bestest westest friend again years later when we don'te ven knwo each otehr anymor?!?!?!!

>someone I knew years ago unblocked me after I contacted them elsewhere (like a creep)
>this must mean something more than them going "oh, right, that guy, geuss I can unblock him now that it's been years"

If she started spamming you every single day that'd "mean something". This means she felt awkward about having you blocked since you stalked her enough to find another way to contact her. Leave her alone, freak.

>>33395743
>how did you even notice you got blocked then unblocked
discord makes it pretty obvious if you aren't retarded

>>33395747
because we'd be here forever but the main reason was the distance, the distance she tried to close at every opportunity but i shut her down every time cause i was retarded

>>33395773
i literally coincidentally ran into her in the game, i didnt hunt her down or some shit we legit just ran into eachother and felt the need to say something, if that makes me a creep then idk what to tell you. its not like i was sitting here trying to contact her on anything possible

>>33395782
>discord makes it pretty obvious if you aren't retarded
You still have to look to find out tard

>>33395782
Same thing either way, she felt awkward having you blocked still since you ran into each other again so she just undid it. Very common, normal people don't like confrontation, she probably hoped you forgot/didn't even notice. I personally also unblock people after a year or so because I don't like seeing their name on my accounts even in my block list, it's upsetting in cases like an ex.

>>33395807
who the fuck is actively looking at their blocked lists? if im unblocking someone, ESPECIALLY after we had just recently interacted with eachother, then its because i have the sole intention of talking to them again, the fuck?

She obviously cares about you enough to answer and unblocked you probably for the potential to further conversate. Does that mean she's wants something? No. If she chases in a manor that seems like interest then yes but as of now shes opened communication and probably wont engage unless given attention but the variables are too unclear. Unless you are incapable of finding anyone else (which if you got a gf over discord you can probably get something better) you could leave it open for potential hitting her up here and there no pressure while also playing the field. Stay sharp my friend and don't take dating advice from 4chan doomcels (me included)

>>33395832
Zoomers be retarded anon

>>33395843
I'm in my 30s, and it's not actively looking in the block list, it's typically because of someone else on the list that either was a mistake or that I was going to talk to again / got bothered enough by shared friends to speak to again. I don't know what a loser you are that you only have one person on your blocklist or something, but "make up with x group" or "y person keeps asking z person to let you talk to them again just once to hear an explanation" tends to come up a lot if you're remotely sociable. If I'm looking at it and scrolling past 100 names to find NiggaSmacka9001 I'm gonna see some other names.

>>33395654 (OP)
>What does that mean
Nobody knows for sure.
Women are retarded. Almost everything they do is retarded. Sometimes they themselves don't even know what they are doing and for what reason because they are retarded.

What I am trying to say is, don't try to see a hidden message in her actions. Just move on from her, she not worth it.

>>33395723
It means she is a mature person and decides to not do childish shit that reminds her of that bad episode in her life. Every time she would look at your profile she would be reminded of the reason she blocked you for example.

>It's not her
Obviously, but since you don't move on you are still living in a dysfunctional imaginary marriage. Is this what you want? You are losing fucking time.

Cut her off. You're not mature enough to have her around and not affect you, so remove her from your life. Remove any reminder. When thinking about her go distract yourself or write down the thoughts like CBT, but don't write shit that feeds your oneitis. Move the fuck on because otherwise you MAY lose the prime years of your life like a lot of anons including me have done.

Visit a therapist if you need. Try to look up one that looks like gets laid.

>>33395723
>you're a desne motherfucker if you dont think it means SOMETHING
It means she's not mad at you anymore. You had your shot and decided to blow it. Tough luck, that's life.

>>33395782
>discord makes it pretty obvious if you aren't retarded
But by your own admission
>i was retarded