I’m being harassed and stalked on instagram by a guy i used to be online friends with.

We had an on and off friendship since 2021 to 2023. After this we cut contact. Previously he had confessed to have feelings for me, and then 3 weeks later threatened me and claimed i copied his partner?
He told me to leave him alone and I did. I havent spoken to him since. However, he keeps doing really weird things and its upsetting me.
Its very complicated and long story so i’ll try to summarize it.

he sent death threats to my friends, threatened, outed my real name and harassed me. Then he made fun of me for grieving my dead father on his birthday, specifically making fun of how he passed away suddenly and at an early age, then made weird poems and art of me but with how i looked at 17, attempted to instigate and trigger paranoia by bombarding my pages with weird creepy things, and then wrote a 70 page document trying to get me cancelled for out of context things I said at 17. For reference, when this harassment begun I was 19.

Its been 2 or 3 years now. I’ve never responded or reached out to him, but hes now messaging my friends again.

I just want him to leave me and my friends alone. I know ignoring him is my best bet, but im scared. Im scared to do *anything*, because he’ll find out and try to flip it as something negative.

I’ll admit im far from perfect, ive definitely not handled it too well.
While i never spoke to him personally during this, i have shittalked him a bit. I also at times feel a compulsion to make sure he’s not talking about me, which ends up with me finding out He still is. And then im scared again.

What do i do? Its such an incredibly stupid situation. It never should’ve existed to begin with. I want nothing to do with this guy. I was willing to talk it out with him civilly, but I doubt he wants that, as anytime hes rebuked he ignores it and keeps crying about how awful i am. This guy is older than me.

He also attempted to doxx me (& friends) by sending ip grabbers, something I luckily didnt click on, but my friends did.

I cant go to the police because they’d do nothing. I’ve tried. They dont care because this guy is from another country than mine.

Who fucking cares if you get doxxed you fucking retard. Just ignore it. If your friends talk about it tell them to ignore it or you’ll ignore them. Nothing is going to happen to you. He has all the power you give him. Grow the fuck up you stupid nigger piece of shit, there is life outside of the internet.

>>33396008 (OP)
May seem obvious, but is he using multiple accounts? Your post doesn't say whether or not you and your friends have blocked him

>>33396136
>I cant go to the police because they’d do nothing.
I seriously doubt that. Police generally take death threats very seriously.

>>33396148
Yes, he is using multiple accounts. I’ve lost count at this point, I block every I come across and my friends do the same. Its just incredibly annoying.

>>33396150
Ive tried before, they told me nothing could be done because we live in different countries. I do have his information, and if he does threaten my safety again I might reach out to his family.

>>33396144
I get this. And I don’t let it blend into my personal life. The issue is this dickhead is like a pest ridden mosquito.

>>33396008 (OP)
I am also being watched and at such moments I can only fly away. get out of here. I'll leave, I'll forget everything.

>>33396235
I will continue to live as a ghost. By the way, I don’t know who to tell this to. no one cares about this situation, especially those close to us. live in constant fear and live in nightmares :))

>>33396244
stalked** (NOT WATCHED0

>>33396235
such people have no personal life. they're assholes

>>33396008 (OP)
I dealt with something similar for years. Block and ignore. Screenshot any actual serious threats.

>>33396008 (OP)
Shouldn't have dated a nigger!