About four months ago I was dating a girl I met through my university, we stopped and didn't see each other for a while and now she's texting me out of the blue.

When I first met her we went out together three times (real dates), I liked her and I felt like, even after all those dates, our feelings weren't yet shared with each other. So I planned to be frank with her on the 4th date and tell her I like her, put simply.
The 4th date never happened because she got sick, I guessed she wasn't interested in me, I went on a trip for a couple weeks.
I came back, asked her how's she was doing, if she was up for another meet, but she replied me with no subtext: "I'm not ready for a relationship".
Allright, I said no problem, we chatted for a bit and I spent the next months forgetting about her.

Now out of the blue she texted me "how are you?" and "I saw you in my dreams 2 days ago".
She's must be interested in me, but I can't deal with this right now, does she want me to text her back (this part I arleady did) and ask her out? I'm not a switch that can be turned on and off, I spent too much time focusing on forgetting her.

I guess I should ask her out because it's what I desire.

Maybe I'm misunderstanding the situation, help will be appreciated.

>>33396013 (OP)
Back then she wasn't ready for a relationship. Now, she might be. What's there to understand?

>>33396143
And this is her way of comunicating that? She has said nothing new, I had told her I wouldn't have continued chasing her.

Lower your tone btw, retard
>she might be, what's there to understand?
If she is, retard

>>33396185
Hey you dumb fuck. You can’t even comprehend what the chick is saying how about your lower YOUR tone. Ask what you were going to ask on the 4th date to see if anything’s changed. You don’t even deserve that obvious crumb you bitch.

>>33396013 (OP)
you sure you want a wife like that? you think shes the one?

You behaved cold in your 3 dates, and she was in heat, so mated with another male.
I don't believe she could respect you anymore.
But you must, first and foremost, respect yourself.

Now if you want to know what to do, ask her what she has been doing this months and act accordingly.

>>33396488
Maybe I do anon, I can't tell for sure, we only went spent a few days together, I feel like we are compatible.
She made me a night meal and some tea on our last date.

>>33397063
If I knew these were the replies I wouldn't have posted on this loonies' website.
She was in heat like your mother anon, I took the three months of break to fuck her good. You are not going to be an only child anymore pretty soon.

>>33396013 (OP)
>out of the blue she texted me
she got dumped and you're her backup plan
proceed accordingly
in your shoes I'd play along, then dump her right after having sex, maybe a few times if she's really good.

>I planned to be frank with her on the 4th date
anyway, whatever happens, you have to start moving sooner, you're way too slow for todays dating etiquette

>>33399651
You anger easily. Maybe she knows that and thought a cool off period would work. Obviously it didn't

>>33399711
This. Fuck her right in the asshole and then tell her to fuck off or ignore

>>33396185
Bro. There is no reason for a girl you were dating to say hi again, other than to go on another date

Go for it and fuck her. This actually happened to me last week (for the first time). We set up a date for the Friday and I came inside her 7 times by the time I left on Sat

Be confident, too. She's chasing you now