Anyone got some dating advise like basic rules? I've recently started to actually get dates again but I keep fucking it up. Not sure though if I'm doing something wrong during the dates or during the time in between dates. The biggest problem I have actually isn't during a date but after a first date I'm never sure how much to message them. I had a first date recently which went okay but not amazing but she did express desire for a 2nd date however she didn't agree to Sat and instead wanted wait until Tues. So when Sat came around I didn't message her first that day because I assumed she was busy since she didn't want a date that day but then she messaged me at 5pm to end things. That makes me think she decided to end things because I didn't message her for too long because if she knew we weren't a match why would she agree to a 2nd date?

Then my date before that one with a Chinese woman I met her for a 2nd date which was karaoke but afterwards she wanted to end things but I got her to agree to fwb so I did get laid thankfully.

Idk I think my biggest problem is definitely the time between dates and wondering how much you should text them. Cus usually they find out I don't have friends and then I don't want them to think I'm too clingy so I give them space by not being the one to send the first message every day. Also, I just think of texting as opening myself up to more ways of saying the wrong thing and fucking it up lol.

Another thing I just thought of is both of the last 2 women I went on dates with took a ride in my car and my car is a 2010 audi a3 with some scratches on the back and the panelling on the backside of the seats is hanging off. Maybe that turned them off. I could afford to make it look brand new again but before now I just thought it was a waste of money because I didn't care how it looked.

Any tips on how to flirt on a first date? My next date only agreed to a date with me after I promised not to make a move on her or expect sex lol

>>33396344 (OP)
>she wanted to end things but I got her to agree to fwb so I did get laid thankfully.
Uh...
I think it s you who should be giving me dating advice actually
How tf did u accomplish that?

>>33396491
During the 2nd date on the drive back she suggested we park in a park at 11pm (so it was deserted) to talk about the relationship and then I suggested we go in the back and we made out with her ontop of my lap. The problem was I didn't get hard enough for sex and I think that's why she wanted to end things amongst other stuff but I could tell she was attracted to me and the issue was something else so I thought I might as well ask her

>>33396344 (OP)
>Anyone got some dating advise like basic rules?
Just be yourself