Thread 33398003 - /adv/ [Archived: 206 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/22/2025, 2:41:53 AM No.33398003
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>Packed up all my vidya and put it away in my closet
>Getting all my nerdy collectible stuff (funkos, statues, tcg cards) together so I can sell them
>Deleting all social media
>Stopped watching porn
What else can I do to eject myself out of being a NEET? I plan on also:
>Overhauling diet and healing my reflux because it’s slowly killing me
>Buying adjustable dumbells
>Taking vitamin D + K2 in the morning and then magnesium before bed
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Anonymous
7/22/2025, 2:45:14 AM No.33398007
>>33398003 (OP)
it sounds like an overwhelming change to expel yourself from all of your previous habit. Like it will have a large affect on your psyche so i think its probably better to pace yourself and try to get used to not having what has been a large part of your life.
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Anonymous
7/22/2025, 2:50:45 AM No.33398023
>>33398007
These things are either sitting here in a closet collecting dust (funkos, statues, etc) with absolutely no use or causing me to mass waste time (I’m not selling my vidya just taking a break). Porn is demonic honestly, I prefer my imagination or sexting/meeting a new woman. I barely use social media also.

Why would this have a psychological effect and why wouldn’t it be a good one? I should be working or something not collecting plastic
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Anonymous
7/22/2025, 2:53:34 AM No.33398033
>>33398003 (OP)
I guarantee that you are going to go on a psychotic break
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Anonymous
7/22/2025, 2:55:07 AM No.33398041
>>33398033
Why? Do you just assume everyone’s as weak as you are?
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Anonymous
7/22/2025, 2:55:38 AM No.33398043
>>33398041
You're a neet, you don't have the right to call anyone weak
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Anonymous
7/22/2025, 2:56:46 AM No.33398048
>>33398023
cause if that's all you did before and now you're quiting cold turkey it will leave some sense of withdraw as if the person you are becoming feels unnatural. at least that's my assumption but it just sounds kinda harsh and like you should let your mind and emotions catch up to this new person you are creating
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Anonymous
7/22/2025, 2:57:51 AM No.33398055
>>33398041
No, you’re right, cold turkey has worked for everyone.
Continue feeling guilty about everything you enjoy.

Also
>porn is demonic
lel it’s a christcuck.
Try not to kill someone before you snap.
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Anonymous
7/22/2025, 2:57:59 AM No.33398057
>>33398043
I’ve been a NEET for roughly 2 years after leaving a high paying job and got tired of collecting nerd stuff, why would selling funko pops cause a traumatic event? Are you gay and retarded? I’m just trying to remove shit I don’t want or need
Anonymous
7/22/2025, 3:00:14 AM No.33398065
>>33398048
These were more distractions I was trying to clear and maybe get some guidance out of a slump, I also said I’m not quitting vidya cold turkey just taking a break from it

>>33398055
So the alternative is to what?
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Anonymous
7/22/2025, 3:03:42 AM No.33398072
>>33398065
>the alternative
As usual, have moderation.

Also all that shit you want to sell, you will be breaking yourself backwards trying to buy them back in your 40s and 50s. But I won’t shit on you for wanting to make a buck here. It’s just that the context as to why is full retard.
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Anonymous
7/22/2025, 3:04:06 AM No.33398074
>>33398065
that sounds good then. I just mean you should ask yourself how you're feeling about this and whether this is something you want and maybe where you want to take this without biting off more of these changes than you can chew. If its not then you're forcing yourself which will probably make you snap back to old habits to seek comfort
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Anonymous
7/22/2025, 3:08:38 AM No.33398086
>>33398074
Why are retards here talking about mental breakdowns?

>I STOPPED PLAYING VIDEO GAMES AND WATCHING PORN I’M LOSING MY FRICKING MIND
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Anonymous
7/22/2025, 3:13:18 AM No.33398097
>>33398086
Because he clearly became an addict to that lifestyle and you don’t go from 0 to 100 overnight without it ending negatively.
Read the rest of that shit. It’s not just stopping video games and porn.
It’s an entire 180 that he will break under. Especially being a christfag.
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Anonymous
7/22/2025, 3:13:29 AM No.33398098
>>33398072
I was going to pick only pick the absolute most valuable collectibles of the bunch I want to keep and keep my vidya in the closet. Porn is absolutely fucking vile so I won’t miss it.
Anonymous
7/22/2025, 3:14:34 AM No.33398102
>>33398097
I’m the OP you retard

>Christcuck
Let me guess you’re a paganist or something? You sound deeply European (and therefore retarded)
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Anonymous
7/22/2025, 3:22:50 AM No.33398125
>>33398102
Then that means you got that testy at someone already trying to give you good advice.
If you are going to be that much of a faggot, go on and break yourself feeling guilty about everything you enjoy or do. Not a surprising way to live from the christcuck.

Again, please just let it be yourself when the time comes. Try not to take anyone else with you when you flip.
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Anonymous
7/22/2025, 3:24:43 AM No.33398135
>>33398125
>Reddit spacing
That tracks honestly. Replacing porn and video games with weightlifting and eating healthier would only be a problem with some euphoric European guy I guess
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Anonymous
7/22/2025, 3:30:34 AM No.33398153
>>33398135
>Never been. breaks predate it here and I’ve been here since 2005. You might be happier going back there though.
This isn’t a site for christcucks scared to death of their own dicks.

I think there may be places for your kind there though

Sorry these break your ADHD riddled zoomer mind and force you to do other things between breaks.

Here’s another, was the tik toc short good?

I hope so.

I’m done here though. Continue being a faggot

You faggot.
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Anonymous
7/22/2025, 3:35:15 AM No.33398178
>>33398153
>Zoomer
I’m 30, I’m sorry I broke YOUR brain damn
Anonymous
7/22/2025, 3:43:37 AM No.33398216
>>33398003 (OP)
>What else can I do to eject myself out of being a NEET?

Go into education, employment, or training. Why did you leave your job, especially since the pay was good?

Idk if you need the dumbells over a gym membership but exercise is good. Reading is also something you can do. I would also try socializing.
Anonymous
7/22/2025, 3:53:11 AM No.33398258
>>33398003 (OP)
The other anon is right. Not because you are trying to change, but because instead of developing the self-control to chase your goals and your interests you sound like you are practicing undoing. Undoing is an unhealthy psychological defense mechanism where someone acts or thinks in an extreme contrary manner to the thing they are trying to suppress. It's common in people trying to change (e.g. someone who is an exploited doormat becoming narcissistic instead of caring for others while also respecting themselves.) Undoing eventually leads to psychological distress, burn out, or the development of an issue of the other extreme instead of finding the healthy middle.
If I were you I'd try to set make a schedule for your day, and plan out when you can do the things you want and when you should work towards doing the things you ought.
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Anonymous
7/22/2025, 4:42:02 AM No.33398469
>>33398003 (OP)
>vidya
not sure what that has to do with education, employment, or training
>selling nerd stuff
not sure what that has to do with education, employment, or training
>deleting all social media
not sure what that has to do with education, employment, or training
>porn
not sure what that has to do with education, employment, or training
>diet
not sure what that has to do with education, employment, or training
>dumbells
not sure what that has to do with education, employment, or training
>vitamins
not sure what that has to do with education, employment, or training

OP do you remember the opening to American Psycho where he talks about his boring daily routine of skincare, working out, and basically summing up to being a nonperson. Yeah that's your cringe path ATM. Imagine someone asks you what your interests are and you hit them with "I take vitamins, lift weights, and focus on my career." They're just gonna think you're bland as hell.

Listen OP I went through a period where I was focusing on my education cause I was working hard on my degree. Barely any time to play video games. I got completely burned out and honestly if I had to do it all over again I would probably try to find a better balance. Life isn't all about playing vidya and nerd shit but it's certainly not about career maxxing like a lifeless husk who only knows laboring for his master. In all honesty drowning yourself in one activity over another means you're still avoiding life bro. Not normal or healthy bro, touch some grass and put down the sigma compilations.
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Anonymous
7/22/2025, 5:16:38 AM No.33398619
>>33398258
So what do I do then?

>>33398469
How do I balance it?
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Anonymous
7/22/2025, 5:20:26 AM No.33398637
>>33398619
>So what do I do then?
I suggested making a schedule. You will play games between a and b, you will work out between a and b, you will do education and work from a to b, you will get up at x time and sleep at y time. Then find a good reliable person to keep you accountable to following your schedule of you need help.
Anonymous
7/22/2025, 5:42:25 AM No.33398737
>>33398003 (OP)
>vidya
>nerdy collectibles
>social media (I'm a hobby artist)
>into all kinds of hentai
I have all those things and I'm not a NEET

Fixing your diet/reflux is a good first step. That shit is life-ruining I feel you.
>What else can I do to eject myself out of being a NEET
Get a job
Real a$s niga
7/22/2025, 6:57:43 AM No.33398976
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Partaking in socialshit
Learning about humans around you
Then getting involved probably
Gunna suck but necessary evul