im 21 now and bio female but terrified of getting older. ive spent years trying to prepare myself for social interaction and looksmaxxing growing up as a frumpy autistic outcast but now i'm worrying that i'm getting too old. i missed out on the "fun" part of growing up, being dumb , having fun and doing things for the first time in late teen years and now i see people (including other people my age) saying that as early as 23 is when you need to grow out of it and grow up. ive lagged behind and when ive just barely caught up for everyone its too late and theyre moving on. also appearance wise i look younger than i am but getting older and not being "young" and becoming a hag terrifies me, i know men love younger girls i hate that i didnt do anything with myself when i was a teenager. i didn't get the chance to feel good about my looks or find my style growing up and now it's like by 23 i have to start leaving this youth behind. is it worth me going through all this effort for two years~ of youth or do i throw in the towel now? i think ive come to terms with knowing my autism and retardation prevents me from having a normal life so im fine if i just slink back to being a complete outcast again but i would feel like ive wasted the best years of my life and something as precious as youth if i dont try and capitalize on it

>>33399590 (OP)
Don’t waste your youthful beauty. Once you’re late 20s you’re gonna start looking like shit. Find a dude now and lock him down. Baby trap him. Do what you gotta do

>>33399590 (OP)
wallphobia

>>33399590 (OP)
Same sitsuation here, altough i have started to find my style a little. I am 18. I struggle with meeting people. i actually managed to have a date today with an older guy but i think im too scared to go. I think its important to rember that you can still find your style and try new things even if you get older. The prime years for women are probably when they are under 25, but even then you still have time! Dont live your life by your age, do what you want

>>33399618
>but i think im too scared to go
pussy faggot

>>33399618
true thank you and good luck with finding your style and progressing in life
>>33399597
im not even thinking of pregnancies yet, im just thinking is there any merit or point to me trying to get my own style and attempt to do the dumb shit i missed out on when i lagged behind, missed out on my late teens when that was the time to do this stuff and even if i do try itll only be a few years left of this youth before i have to move on for good

>>33399590 (OP)
If you're a virgin and attractive I'll marry you right now

>>33399707
obviously im a virgin but not attractive
ive looksmaxxed a bit to lose weight and learn skincare but i dont have a good face or body

>>33399590 (OP)
LARP post.

>>33399709
Send me a message on discord: svenkuong. I'll teach you how to lift, diet, be healthy

>>33399590 (OP)
25 male here. The older you get you’ll start to realize there are no “rules”. stop caring about made up rules (I have to be like this by 23 etc.) and just do what you want. The only thing you’re wasting is your time spent online being worried about things that don’t really matter instead of going out and exploring the world. remember we all grow old and die eventually