Anonymous
7/23/2025, 1:16:22 AM No.33401980
Is it better to have a toxic gf than to be single?
At least the guy with the bad gf has a girlfriend
At least the guy with the bad gf has a girlfriend
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Thread 33401980 - /adv/ [Archived: 80 hours ago]
Anonymous
7/23/2025, 1:20:11 AM No.33401996
>>33401980 (OP)
It's not worth it in the long run. It's fine to fuck toxic girls, but you shouldn't date them.
It's not worth it in the long run. It's fine to fuck toxic girls, but you shouldn't date them.
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 1:20:23 AM No.33401998
>>33401980 (OP)
Depends on what you're considering toxic and if you're just being overly sensitive about something or there are problems that make you really concerned
Depends on what you're considering toxic and if you're just being overly sensitive about something or there are problems that make you really concerned
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 1:24:17 AM No.33402016
>>33401996
What about picky and desperate aging girls who generally have a hard time finding good guys?
What about picky and desperate aging girls who generally have a hard time finding good guys?
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 1:24:44 AM No.33402021
>>33402016
How abouy you date someone who you actually like?
How abouy you date someone who you actually like?
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 1:27:26 AM No.33402032
>>33401980 (OP)
It sounds like you mistakenly believe that having a girlfriend will solve your self esteem issues.
It sounds like you mistakenly believe that having a girlfriend will solve your self esteem issues.
Anonymous
7/23/2025, 1:31:34 AM No.33402042
>>33401998
Well, I get a really toxic vibe from her. I can get along with everyone and my MO is basically to talk about the other person. I share little about myself because I have trust issues, and my life is very good so people find me interesting.
Given I generally talk about other people, all I ever talk about with her is her, basically. She complains about work and other stuff. Despite only talking about the other person, with her, it feels like if I even mentioned something about myself, she would ridicule it. I grew up around this type and I know it very well. It is the entire reason I have my trust issues.
She just seems toxic, but she reminds me of family, so I don't know.
The reason I asked the question the way I did in the OP is because I lost a girl a few years ago and she got together with a loser instead, and I thought at least that "loser" had a girlfriend and I was alone, so if he was a "loser", what was I. (That girl was similar to this girl.)
Well, I get a really toxic vibe from her. I can get along with everyone and my MO is basically to talk about the other person. I share little about myself because I have trust issues, and my life is very good so people find me interesting.
Given I generally talk about other people, all I ever talk about with her is her, basically. She complains about work and other stuff. Despite only talking about the other person, with her, it feels like if I even mentioned something about myself, she would ridicule it. I grew up around this type and I know it very well. It is the entire reason I have my trust issues.
She just seems toxic, but she reminds me of family, so I don't know.
The reason I asked the question the way I did in the OP is because I lost a girl a few years ago and she got together with a loser instead, and I thought at least that "loser" had a girlfriend and I was alone, so if he was a "loser", what was I. (That girl was similar to this girl.)
Anonymous
7/23/2025, 1:32:34 AM No.33402050
>>33402021
I don't want relationships but some girls nestle their way in and I go with the flow
I don't want relationships but some girls nestle their way in and I go with the flow
Anonymous
7/23/2025, 1:33:35 AM No.33402052
Anonymous
7/23/2025, 1:42:01 AM No.33402078
I think it is situationally dependent is a good answer as a catch-all on this board.
Anonymous
7/23/2025, 3:06:17 AM No.33402469
>>33401980 (OP)
>At least the guy with the bad gf has a girlfriend
And? So?
A good girlfriend can make your life better, sure. A bad girlfriend can make your life much worse. How is that not worse than being single? Single is just neutral.
>At least the guy with the bad gf has a girlfriend
And? So?
A good girlfriend can make your life better, sure. A bad girlfriend can make your life much worse. How is that not worse than being single? Single is just neutral.
Anonymous
7/23/2025, 3:15:49 AM No.33402525
Toxic gf will slowly corrode you and make you lose your sense of self
Being alone will also corrode you but you will still be yourself
Being alone will also corrode you but you will still be yourself