Thread 33402314 - /adv/ [Archived: 80 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/23/2025, 2:36:16 AM No.33402314
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>be me
>16 at the time, socially awkward nerd
>obsessed with trying to get gf, though was never successful
>had spent half my life at that point on that, forgot how to think abt other things
>go to church camp
>know girl who went there w/ my church who I was crushing heavily on at the time
>really enjoy camp
>wednesday, halfway through camp
>there's a thing they do wednesday evening where they have people talk abt personal struggles
>other girl from my church who's like 3-4 yrs younger than me, let's call her sis, talks abt masochism and doing SH
>realize that despite having never done SH we had a lot of common ground and I may very well also be a masochist
>tell her I get where her head's at
>go to bed that night having forgotten abt girl I had a crush on but smiling to myself bc I started thinking of sis as the sister I never had
>tell her next day that I think of her as a little sister
>she says she thinks of me as older brother
>feelsgoodman.jpg
>ff a year
>we're still inseparable, even if a 17 y/o guy talking to a 14 y/o girl looks weird
>realize that i'm turning 18 soon
>panic.jpg
>go on 4chan and ask for advice
I honestly don't know what to do here, I don't want people to think i'm grooming her. To be completely clear there is absolutely nothing romantic between us. but ik how what i'm doing must look like. genuinely considering stopping our relationship but we have so much history and shared secrets at this point. what do I do anons
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 2:38:18 AM No.33402322
>>33402314 (OP)
Just say you're family and make it apparent that that is your form of relationship. You love eachother like siblings. Meet at church and with family to cement this wholesome relation. Also get her contact info obviously in case you two are separated for whatever reason.
Anonymous
7/23/2025, 2:44:55 AM No.33402356
Talk to a trusted adult.
Anonymous
7/23/2025, 2:51:29 AM No.33402392
who the fuck cares what are you afraid some fag is gonna point and stare who cares about those dumbass fucking pornrotted faggots you have a close near blood bond dont throw that away assuming her parents know you then all is good if they dont let yourself be known youve known each other for years and met at a fucking christ camp that alone would be enough to make any good parent realize you have no ill harm

keep your freind close anon godspeed