Annoyed - /adv/ (#33403355)

Anonymous
7/23/2025, 6:52:25 AM No.33403355
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Don't malesperg at me but I am annoyed cause I like my face other than some stuff (need a second septoplasty, wish I didn't have dark circles but idk if that is possible, wish I had blue eyes but the eye laser sounds seems dangerous allegedly) but from what I understand I do not look good??like my eye shape for one is "objectively ugly" (everyone online says I have ugly eyes, there are theories as to why)along I guess other stuff. Also I like my aesthetic (clothes eyebrows makeup)non normie which also deducts. Therefore the only way to actually be loved would be to non only putting my health in danger by changing my eye shape etc. But also losing myself since I don't like the "objectively pretty" face aesthetic. Therefore I am kinda annoyed that I will never be loved for who I am. Heck even my only ex put down my appearance.
Inb4 actually sweaty if you dated an ugu male he would like your appearance!! Being ugly doesn't change your feelings about what you find attractive only motivates you to be more manipulative about it.

Idk annoying since the solution is either risky or never having a loving boyfriend which is something I do want. Any coping adv for this?

Ps about the ugu male comment, I like guys that you would call ugu but like with every man the face has to click, but regardless my point still stands
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 6:59:16 AM No.33403377
welcome to the 80% relish it because you now know how a normal man feels

anyway my advice cut off your face with a stationary paper cutter
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 7:00:44 AM No.33403384
>>33403377
Not really since men don't value love you guys only want sex and other services
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 7:06:34 AM No.33403395
>>33403384
2 things one

1 you have shit tastes in men if they find a non washed up woman and only want sex go flirt with some loosers and lower your standards princess

2 then what do women want dont say just love because that opviously isnt true in most traditional relationships the woman is for pleasure and childbearing the man is for protection and monetary gain or are you saying you want a man for all his benefits and want to provide nothing
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 7:08:46 AM No.33403402
>>33403395
One was too low iq for me to answer and two yeah I don't want that which like I said you do so yeah I am not like le men
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 7:17:38 AM No.33403426
>>33403402
>One was too low iq for me to answer and two yeah I don't want that which like I said you do so yeah I am not like le men

oh ok let me translate into retardeneze for you

have you been fucked before if no your tastes in men are bad if yes your getting fucked by your bad tastes

and you just want to sit around and make a man do everything then its not your ugly face you need to worry about its that princess complex
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 7:29:53 AM No.33403466
>>33403426
I knew what you said I called it retarded cause you can't just lower your standards . Not responding to the rest of the misogynistic assumptions that came out of thin air and saltiness
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 7:32:48 AM No.33403477
>>33403466
>I knew what you said I called it retarded cause you can't just lower your standards

its called settling most men have to do it most women think they are above it i see why you think your ugly not no amount of makeup and plastic can fix that princess complex
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 7:35:02 AM No.33403487
>>33403477
You are just spamming copy paste arguments so I am just going to stop engaging
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 7:37:00 AM No.33403499
>>33403487
yeah just like youve done with every man who has ever tried to deal with you your prince will never come youll just be a peice of meat in a harem until your old and want to settle with some pore fuck who will scoop up your leftovers
Anonymous
7/23/2025, 10:57:16 AM No.33403910
>>33403355 (OP)
You'd be surprised how little a woman's face matters if her personality is sufficiently simpatico. Your ex is a jerk, but that doesn't mean everyone is.
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Real a$s niga
7/23/2025, 2:59:14 PM No.33404279
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Post plastic deformed abomination of a mug for us to gawk at
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 4:07:26 PM No.33404380
>>33403910
Well I would hope so, thank you
>>33404279
Ew
Anonymous
7/23/2025, 4:18:20 PM No.33404397
>>33403355 (OP)
>Therefore the only way to actually be loved would be to non only putting my health in danger by changing my eye shape etc. But also losing myself since I don't like the "objectively pretty" face aesthetic. Therefore I am kinda annoyed that I will never be loved for who I am.

Not every man prioritises looks in women so strongly. Some prioritise it lesser than personality. Still important but not a deal-breaker if you have a lovable character.

Also attraction is malleable. Some men will grow to be attracted to their girl because of love. Even if she were a 6/10 objectively, subjectively to that man, she is a 10/10 because her face is >her< face. Means if she were in a room of one hundred 10/10 women, that man would only be searching to see his girlfriend.

That's the problem with those who have weird relationships to their own face. You never stop to consider that there are many men, both attractive men and nit-so attractive, who would see you as attractive without you needing to resort to surgically altering your own face.
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 12:08:58 AM No.33405732
Idk
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 7:26:37 AM No.33407522
>>33403384
>men don't value love you guys only want sex and other services
Maybe they don't value that in you, ask yourself why.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 11:39:26 AM No.33408136
>>33407522
No