meeting women - /adv/ (#33404615)

Anonymous
7/23/2025, 5:42:14 PM No.33404615
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To add to all the relationship advice threads on this board. I want to ask advice for where you can meet women in the first place.

The right answer most people say is "anywhere", but I haven't seen this be the case where I live in the US. Everywhere I go (bars, bookstores, grocery stores, house parties), all the women are either with their boyfriends/husbands or give off signs that they don't want to be approached (staring at their phone the entire time, airpods in, etc.). Meanwhile I keep seeing posts on social media where women are complaining about not being approached, so where are these women that are open to being approached at?
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 5:50:45 PM No.33404632
>>33404615 (OP)
Try narrowing it down visiting a nice restraunt once a week, having a nice beverage or meal and getting to know some of the staff who may be able to introduce you to other singles who frequent the same spot. Or try having family that can be a lot of fun refer you to someone they know. An arcade may be a good place to visit, if there are any in your area and if they have 'singles' nights. It is a little fuzzy to offer suggestions when you havn't really expressed what you may be interested in.
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 5:51:46 PM No.33404634
>>33404632
Thats a stellar idea, anon.
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 5:57:43 PM No.33404647
>>33404615 (OP)
Find a setting where it is normal for you and they to be, presumably for some common reason, so you are meeting as fellow members or participants

Club (in the sense of shared interest groups)
Church
School (or take a random evening class at a free CC)
Team
Volunteer group
Club (in the sense of entertainment place, where you are fellow audience members)
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 5:58:43 PM No.33404649
>>33404634
An idea that has been repeated 5-7 times a week for more than a year in the 2-3 threads like this we get a day.
Spending 5 minutes in the archive would have been faster for you
Anonymous
7/23/2025, 5:59:15 PM No.33404651
>>33404632
no the fuck it is not nobody has ever gone to a restaurant to find love a bar maybe a singles event at that restaurant sure but you never fucking ever see people getting up from there tables to go to a different table with someone sitting alone to go chat them up that is the most retarded hallmark shit i have ever seen in my life hang from some rope
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 6:05:40 PM No.33404676
>>33404651
fuck it. go to tinder and maybe you will find love there, retard. i am just trying to be helpful. i actually did meet the loml at a restraunt/bar by walking by their table and striking up a convo.
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 6:07:57 PM No.33404684
>>33404676
nobody has ever found tove on tinder paid shills every single one

also if you wouldve said bar then yeah thats different but fucking restaurant wtf was that word choice you almost got the dude locked up
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 6:17:24 PM No.33404715
>>33404684
most restraunts have a bar.
go out this evening, somewhere in your neighborhood and just have some dinner.
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 8:13:44 PM No.33404961
>>33404647
The Church is not a social club, you go there for God, not to express your lustful intentions
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 8:22:31 PM No.33404985
>>33404961
tons of normie couples met in church
the best way to meet new women (people in general) is having a solid social circle that can introduce you to new people but you faggots have 0 social life and are obsessed with excruciating cold approaches
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 12:31:17 AM No.33405831
>>33404676
>>33404715
the retard you're replaying to is obviously not OP but a bitter troll, pay attention to his grammar baka

also >>33404632 I'm not OP and I'm in a similar spot, this sounds good but
>I have basically no family left
>singles nights in my location are sausage fests
>>33404985
my social circle and my hobbies are also sausage fests, I genuinely haven't met a woman in years that wasn't either a coworker or a friend/acquaintance's partner
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:53:37 PM No.33408445
>>33404615 (OP)
You are literally me.
Women complain on social media because they're not being aproached by chad thundercock that is too busy with his hands full of these sluts.
The migrants have the right approach, be more intrusive, direct, even rude but don't be persistent, shoot your shot, if bad reaction move on in a second.
If her face gives you a bad answer don't even let her open her mouth and move on.
Yea, it's crazy out there.
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 2:11:37 PM No.33408468
>>33404615 (OP)
The truth is there is nowhere to meet people in the current year. There are very few single women walking on the streets anymore, they all drive but the main problem is most women are in relationships already starting with high school and college. They will tell you to go to bars and pubs but it doesn't seem to work anymore, in the past sure maybe but not anymore.

Then they tell you hobbies, to get hobbies and sign up for shit, but most women don't have hobbies (their hobby is socializing over the internet and in real life) not to mention the countless other guys that get into hobbies to meet women.
If you don't meet a girl in high school or college it's over in 2025, there is nowhere to meet women anymore, unless you cold approach in places where young women hang out. And let me tell you alone as a 30/40+ year old male, it's not going to go well. You would at least need a wingman but even then the odds are stacked against you not just because of the age difference.
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 3:47:05 PM No.33408682
>>33405831
>my social circle and my hobbies are also sausage fests
skill issue