depressed/angry - /adv/ (#33405303) [Archived: 7 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/23/2025, 10:36:55 PM No.33405303
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>bowed legs
>narrow shoulders
>wide hips
>short
>short torso
>hairy
>weak jaw
i should've been culled at birth for being dysgenic. also i'll preempt any generic advice that might be posted itt, so as to improve the overall quality of posts
>narrow shoulders? just work out bro
great idea. work out every day for years just to look semi-normal (still mogged by a normal human's relatively cannonball clavicles). and also if i ever stop i'll go back to being a freak.
>bowed legs? nobody notices them!
yes they do and it subconsciously signals that you're a dysgenic freak who didn't receive proper nutrition growing up. in the iliad, the first description of thersites is that he's bow legged. no pants will ever look normal on me unless i spend thousands of dollars getting everything i will ever wear tailor-made
>gain weight and muscle
all the weight goes straight to my legs and stomach. i'm 130 pounds with toothpick arms and thunder thighs
>wide hips and short torso...
there's no advice. it kills every physique. i don't even look like a man anymore. on top of that i'm still hairy looking. so i look like an autistic inbred monstrosity. i'm a full XY biological male yet i look like a weird quasi-intersex trans monstrosity. i was disqualified as a man from birth despite being born as a male with XY chromosomes. too masculine to be a femboy (disgusting caveman forehead and gross hairy body), too feminine to be a real man.
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 10:39:42 PM No.33405314
also i'm 22 yo and a khhv
Anonymous
7/23/2025, 10:44:48 PM No.33405341
>>33405303 (OP)
Self-obsessed neurotic who’s laser focused on negative physical traits instead of the acquisition of anything else that actually matters(interests, fulfilling career, stable social relationships). Shitty place to be.
Lemme guess, your parents didnt instill in you that you were worth keeping around or something?
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 10:49:10 PM No.33405358
>>33405341
sounds like you're somebody who can take how he looks for granted because his flaws are actually minor. i took pictures and measurements of every inch of my body. my flaws are not hallucinations. and people do care. there have been several instances throughout my life of people commenting on the defects of my body. i didn't care until i realized it for myself. i was actually blissful.
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 10:53:19 PM No.33405378
>>33405358
Feel free to not project onto me.

Anyway, I’m pretty average looking, i dont like what I look like most days, and had struggled with body image in my youth. But I have enough life experience that I know what’s important. It sure as shit isn’t what people look like.
My body is a vessel for me to have positive experiences, like seeing my friends, exercise, good food, hobbies, etc. list goes on.

>I took pictures and measurements of every inch of my body
So you could obsessively punish yourself? Did it do anything for you?
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 10:55:14 PM No.33405384
>>33405378
I wanted to know the truth of what my body objectively looked like lest I rely on my possibly warped self perception (I even showed the pictures to other people to gather more opinions). If I was disabused of the idea that I'm ugly or deformed then I wouldn't be making this thread now.
>average looking
aka not ugly
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 10:57:53 PM No.33405397
>>33405384
You’re failing to understand or acknowledge anything else im expressing anon
Im not even telling you you are or aren’t ugly. I don’t care if you are or aren’t. Im saying that you’re just punishing yourself and jerking yourself off to how awful you are or whatever. What then? You’re allowed to be happy.
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 10:59:37 PM No.33405405
>>33405397
You are under the assumption that looks don't actually matter. So give me advice while acknowledging these facts
>looks do matter
>looks do affect your life
>people will judge you for how you look before anything else
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 11:03:40 PM No.33405425
>>33405405
I already gave you a bunch of advice, haha. You can read it again but it just seems like you want confirmation from me that it’s over so you can give up. Which, lame.
I gotta go, but my final thought experiment is this: if you were actually hideous and unloveable or whatever, and people still wanted you around despite knowing this, what would that mean about you?
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 11:10:24 PM No.33405450
>>33405425
is your bar for friendship
>they like keeping you around
?
again your advice contradicted the axiom
>looks do matter
all your advice rests on the counter assumption of
>nuh uh they don't actually
so it's worthless
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 11:14:30 PM No.33405474
>>33405450
It’s a colloquialism; and my bar for friendship is repeated instances of: doing things we like together, talking about whatever is on our minds, being honest about what troubles us, telling jokes, and showing interest in what we don’t know.
Try it sometime.
I think you’re not gonna be anywhere near happy until you break out of this fucking insane world view.
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Anonymous
7/23/2025, 11:22:53 PM No.33405512
>>33405474
i never said i didn't have friends
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 2:37:48 AM No.33406445
bump
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 2:17:13 PM No.33408481
bump