>>33405439 (OP)chasing women is for short flings at bars and clubs. and sometimes that turns into dating, but you'll need to be at peace with where the girl has been if she gets into dating this way.
if you want serious relationships, stop chasing, stop being proactive and wait for a woman to like you as you go about your life. if you want to increase your chances make more of your life social or at least outside, but actively fighting to be the #1 in a girl's wide and expansive social network is humiliation. if she wants you as her #1, she engages with you. simple as.