found out that my sister in-law has been cheating on my brother for over 4 years. She has a boyfriend and has also been seeing multiple men around. Goes out of her way to meet them. My brother may be a cuck! But I’m really worried about their daughters. Sounds of it there's a lot of neglect.

With all the cheating stories in the news lately, I feel like I should say something. I want to protect my family but I’m not sure how to do it without creating a big mess. Should I tell the family anonymously (I did try making an FB account on VPN, doesn't work)? Rage on the guy she’s been cheating with? Or just try to stay out of it?

I really don’t know..

>>33405538 (OP)
>My brother might be a cuck because his wife has been cheating and I'm even specifying she does so secretly

That's not what a cuck is.

>>33405542
You are right. I have been spiraling thinking too much.

>>33405538 (OP)
Tell the family

>>33405538 (OP)
>Sounds of it there's a lot of neglect.
That might justify interfering. If it's just the cheating, then stay out of it. People do not react rationally in situations like this: if you do anything, your brother will always see you as the person who destroyed his marriage, not as the person who tried to help.

>>33405863
>That might justify interfering. If it's just the cheating, then stay out of it. People do not react rationally in situations like this: if you do anything, your brother will always see you as the person who destroyed his marriage, not as the person who tried to help.
That has been my hesitation and why if I can I want to do it anonymously. I want to send messages to her side of family. I just don't know how can I without it coming to me.

>>33405538 (OP)
Stay out of it. ANYTHING you say or do will make things worse and turn them both against you

>>33405538 (OP)
probably better to talk to the sister in law in question, be extremely genial, understanding, and non threatening when you do it like you dont even care, dont be dramatic, dont act like a faggot hero with the secret puzzle piece (thats going to destroy your brothers life really). Or dont say anything at all which is probably best because you probably dont have great social skills but I dont know

>>33408016
yeah dont talk to the sister unless youre a masterclass communicator just tell your brother and let him handle it, or do nothing and let him find out on his own (he probably already knows)